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You should take the time, instead of dissecting and picking apart this person's ad, (whom you have never met) question why you felt the need to post her photo, and ad without her consent, and draw some stupid, and ridiculous conclusions.
Seriously... that is a pretty low and callous thing to do.
Last edited by Pitt Chick; 02-04-2016 at 08:05 PM..
Op I think you are venting. You are making posts about this one random stranger not being so smart or all that for using online dating when you yourself are using it too. You sound very frustrated. Maybe you should take a break from online and maybe even plain old dating too. Take some time to calm down and regain your cool. Angry men are scary and women will avoid you. Even if that anger is under the surface a lot of us can just feel it. And being avoided by women will only make you more frustrated. Anger and frustration will eat you up and ruin your mind and even your health.
Last edited by BellaLind; 02-04-2016 at 08:58 PM..
I've seen women's ads like this, yes. But 90%? Never. Seems like you need to refine your search (or change the internet dating service you use) and find different women. But I agree with others. You just need a break, you are letting this get to you in an unhealthy way.
Here we go. This is a picture perfect example of everything that is wrong with online dating.
What is wrong with this ad? This is two screenshots of the same ad for one posted not far from me. This ad is such a mess and so loaded with contradictions and cognitive dissonance that it would be comical if it were not a sad reality that's indicative of close to 90% of the womens ads I see.
Let me count the ways. Perhaps someone else can pile on:
"Beetchy", obnoxious smirk in her pictures that almost "dares" anyone to approach her. No man that's even halfway respectable is going to come near someone like that.
Which means only assorted cheesers, gang bangers, and other losers will. Thus setting in motion a series of machinations that will simultaneously convince her that both she's Gods little princess and that every man on the planet is not worthy of so much as a courtesy hello.
Trying to kiss a beer a-la sorority caper
Not smiling. At all.
Dressed like she's going to a nightclub for a night of debauchery.
But goes on to say that she's a mother and that her kids "come first"
WTF kind of responsible parent lives a hedonistic life like that?
What kind of message is that sending to her progeny?
Right away lays in with the boorish, condescending attitude about (to paraphrase) "not approaching her with a boorish, condescending attitude", despite almost every aspect of her own ad being precisely that.
Doesn't "play games" but apparently drinks like a fish?
If she's "all that" and "so smart" then why is she a single parent on a dating site in the first place?
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What does being a single parent have to do with smarts and dating sites? Dating sites can be an efficient and effective tool for many people, especially single parents.
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