Is there likely anything about me that puts women off? (friend, good looking)

[Mikala43]

So you have never asked a woman out?

What do you construe as interest? What should a woman do to let you know she likes you?

And...

What do you do to let a woman know you like her?

[MilesKent]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

Well that is one way to get a convo started with someone of the opposite sex.

Ah I don't think so, I'm very shy about it. I'm not doing it to be published since the quality of my writing is not good enough. And the subject wouldn't interest most people.

[rcsteiner]

Originally Posted by MilesKent

No, no...I don't talk about this stuff with them...especially when they all have a boyfriend, it wouldn't make any sense.

I have a few female friends (ok, a ahlf dozen or so) that I tend to bounce things off of from time to time.

It's a good way to get feedback from friends who might have a different point of view.

Also, I think it doesn't hurt to have a few good female friends in general if you're single even if they aren't romantic interests or possibilities.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by MilesKent

Ah I don't think so, I'm very shy about it. I'm not doing it to be published since the quality of my writing is not good enough. And the subject wouldn't interest most people.

And what is the subject? Are you writing an instruction manual for fun or something?

[MilesKent]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

So you have never asked a woman out?

No, never.

Originally Posted by Mikala43

What do you construe as interest? What should a woman do to let you know she likes you?

That's very hard to say since I've never had interest shown from women, just like I've said. But perhaps taking an active interest in what I say and wanting to be/do things with me.

Originally Posted by Mikala43

What do you do to let a woman know you like her?

I don't do anything, I'm far too reserved for that. I'm just asking because I have several male friends who don't have to do anything to get women....they never have to show interest, the moment they walk into a place there's a dozen of them looking at them and wanting to talk.

One in particular sometimes even has to shrugg a few women off because it's too much. And he doesn't do anything, he just sits there.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by Auraliea

Oh would you stop already?

I'm just asking what a lot of people here wont ask

Go eat a cheeseburger, honey, and leave me alone. hahaha

[MilesKent]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

And what is the subject?

It's an espionage thriller. Yes, I'm just doing it for fun, it'll never leave my bookcase.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Summer_Rain

Have you asked your female friends for their opinion?

Apparently he can't, because they "have boyfriends."

[Just A Guy]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

You ever notice how every guy who has posted a "never had a gf" thread are exactly 24 years old? I mean what a strange coincidence.

And they always say women haven't shown "the slightest interest in me". They also are always working on their professional achievements

[Summer_Rain]

Originally Posted by MilesKent

No, no...I don't talk about this stuff with them...especially when they all have a boyfriend, it wouldn't make any sense.

Do you feel uncomfortable opening up to your friends? People in general? Friends for me are those people that I can trust with absolutely anything and everything.
Your female friends might have good advise, especially because they have boyfriends.