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Old 05-12-2016, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If you don't like yourself, others will generally follow suit.

Go into Walmart, look around at the couples. Not contenders for any beauty pageants, but they all found each other.
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:56 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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Apparently you're a man. Your attitude is any way.
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Kansas City
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Default Only married men are willing to talk to me

I can get a married man to talk to me, but the single men run away from me and refuse to talk to me
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:29 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lk-me-but.html

You started a similar post, link above, in case you forgot about it.
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Kansas City
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I'm just so done trying and I ought to just disappear from the planet as if I never existed at all
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:39 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I am starting to understand why people run away.


Hint: It isn't your looks.
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm sure there's plenty of single men that you find unattractive that's willing to talk to you.
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:43 AM
 
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It's not like your name is Fahrvergnugen Mummenshanz the Third or something. (Although that's kind of an awesome name. Wish I'd thought of it while I was pregnant.)
Late hubby had a common first name. When he had to get on a waiting list, he'd say his name was Fred Ishkabibble. He liked the sound of it.

I find I have a much easier time talking to married men than I do single ones. Somehow, I'm not as much of a socially awkward dork if a guy is wearing a ring. Maybe because subconsciously I know there's no point in trying to impress them due to their being unavailable.
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Old 05-13-2016, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I merged two of the OP's threads.
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Old 05-13-2016, 09:52 PM
 
Location: H-town, TX.
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It's you. There is always someone willing to "date" the hell out of you unless you are a pariah.
The thirst is real.
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Are you especially good-looking? Maybe only married men talk to you because they're not afraid of rejection, since they're married, but single guys are too shy to approach. The too-shy-too-approach seems to be almost epidemic, these days. Or they assume you're already taken, that's another stumbling block you never would have known about if you hadn't come online.
Erm? I'd figured OP was quite homely and married guys knew they could make hay with her if things were sour in their own back yards, so to speak.

Either way:

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