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Old 05-20-2016, 03:01 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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It doesn't make any sense.
Angry that women don't find them attractive or that they can't attract women ( charm, looks , sense of humour etc etc ) or to save face.

Either way it's the poor lady in question that's the " casualty of war " and she's not at all at fault
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Old 05-20-2016, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Men shame women when they refuse and then later when they say "yes". That means it's the guy who has the problem.
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Old 05-20-2016, 03:14 PM
 
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And that answers the question, how?

I agree with the posters question. I've never ever been "shamed" in any way, by a guy online.

Is this something that actually happened to you or are you just trying to spin a tale here?
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Old 05-20-2016, 03:53 PM
 
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I don't get why men are bringing up sex on an internet chat. Who thinks that approach is going to work?
But they almost ALL do it. There are so few men on OLD that even know the basics about being a gentleman. I always ask them if they would have brought up that topic if we were talking face to face and getting to now each other. Dealbreaker.
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Old 05-20-2016, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Canada
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LOL your post remind me some one I met online. He start cursing me when I said I am not going to bed with him just like that. He called me all names he could think of.
Well, count yourself lucky then..because so many online relationship seekers have NO compunction of lying..and present themselves as ALL goody 2 Shoes types..respectful blah blah..

While don't want to suggest there are NOT honest types out there..I say..kudo's when one makes it known upfront..No hookups..a MUST to establish a "TRUSTING" relationship..which will take time..Like it or not

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I don't get why men are bringing up sex on an internet chat. Who thinks that approach is going to work?

With women it's all about how they feel with you in the moment. In most situations, there has to be a level of trust there.

So if one is turned down, it should be in person not on some internet chat site. I have little game and I know that much.
LOL>.Want a HOOKUP..don't want to waste time with a "Nice Women"..just wanna get laid!! For those who are truly seeking manful relationships..THAT should be a RED FLAG!!

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Angry that women don't find them attractive or that they can't attract women ( charm, looks , sense of humour etc etc ) or to save face.

Either way it's the poor lady in question that's the " casualty of war " and she's not at all at fault
LOL..Maybe these types don't like their relationship with "Rosey Palm" ..and those of us who are Older..knows exactly what that means!! Frustration will bring out the "Worst" in those frustrated ( sexual satisfaction)..Booo Hoooo..Spend that date money for a professional IF that's all they want!! ROFLMAO
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Old 05-20-2016, 06:56 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Well, count yourself lucky then..because so many online relationship seekers have NO compunction of lying..and present themselves as ALL goody 2 Shoes types..respectful blah blah..

While don't want to suggest there are NOT honest types out there..I say..kudo's when one makes it known upfront..No hookups..a MUST to establish a "TRUSTING" relationship..which will take time..Like it or not



LOL>.Want a HOOKUP..don't want to waste time with a "Nice Women"..just wanna get laid!! For those who are truly seeking manful relationships..THAT should be a RED FLAG!!



LOL..Maybe these types don't like their relationship with "Rosey Palm" ..and those of us who are Older..knows exactly what that means!! Frustration will bring out the "Worst" in those frustrated ( sexual satisfaction)..Booo Hoooo..Spend that date money for a professional IF that's all they want!! ROFLMAO
Rosey Palm? I thought she got replaced with a younger more adventurous model...... PALMela and her 5 friends? LOL

It's true of course and yes every once in a while it's great to blow off some stream but over the Internet? At a total stranger? .....

Personally I wouldn't get all hot and bothered about nasty things said about me but instead I'd have some fun....... A while ago after a fling with a girl she got the hump because I didn't want a relationship with her ( we agreed before hand just casual status ) and in a pub she started with the usual " oh he's got a small organ and it's dusty " ( basically saying its small and i don't know what I'm doing with it LOL.) .... So I said " well of course I've got a dusty organ as its never played in a cathedral before! ... ( I sure you can image how big a cathedral is ) and getting laughed at put a stop to her and that!

I'm sure many would fold and get annoyed with it but revenge is much sweeter and satisfying IMO .......

Take note people
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Old 05-20-2016, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Westwood, MA
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Because they are horrible, angry, bitter people. What's hard to understand about that?
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Old 05-20-2016, 07:06 PM
 
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To answer the OPs question, I just figure men like that are mentally unbalanced in some fashion. Just block them and don't worry about it. They are worth a second thought.
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Old 05-20-2016, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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But they almost ALL do it. There are so few men on OLD that even know the basics about being a gentleman. I always ask them if they would have brought up that topic if we were talking face to face and getting to now each other. Dealbreaker.
Yup.. Even here on the CD!
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Old 05-20-2016, 08:04 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yup.. Even here on the CD!
Its the age of the internet, did anybody expect any different?
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