Is my boyfriend losing interest in me ? (dating, long distance, women)

[nargis]

I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through facebook in the initial stage of our relationship we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. i know the problem is little weird but please bear with me.

Whenever we used to talk on phone we used to do sex chat. It lasted for 4 months. After 4 months we met for the first time..we started meeting in person. On every weekend we used to sleep with each other.. this thing lasted for 8-9 months. after that we again got into the long distance. Now the problem is .. he is not interested in virtual sex. He says.. we had already done everything in person.. now it feels weird talking about these stuff on phone or video. these things doesn't turn me on. But whenever we meet.. we do all these stuff.. do you think its normal... or Is my boyfriend is losing interest in me ? He calls me every day.. he talks about future but i think he is not physically attracted towards me any more. I lost lots of weight in last one year. My height is 5'3 but weight is only 40 kg.. so basically i am underweight .when we were friends once he told me that he has a thing for curvy women basically chubby girls. He never ask me for my pictures. Day by day i am getting insecure about myself.. i am losing confidence in my self please help me out.

[DontH8Me]

Are you talking about the guy you broke up with in this thread?

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post43560259

You got quite a bit of good advice in your first thread - did you read and understand it?

[Jay100]

Originally Posted by nargis

I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through facebook in the initial stage of our relationship we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. i know the problem is little weird but please bear with me.

Whenever we used to talk on phone we used to do sex chat. It lasted for 4 months. After 4 months we met for the first time..we started meeting in person. On every weekend we used to sleep with each other.. this thing lasted for 8-9 months. after that we again got into the long distance. Now the problem is .. he is not interested in virtual sex. He says.. we had already done everything in person.. now it feels weird talking about these stuff on phone or video. these things doesn't turn me on. But whenever we meet.. we do all these stuff.. do you think its normal... or Is my boyfriend is losing interest in me ? He calls me every day.. he talks about future but i think he is not physically attracted towards me any more. I lost lots of weight in last one year. My height is 5'3 but weight is only 40 kg.. so basically i am underweight .when we were friends once he told me that he has a thing for curvy women basically chubby girls. He never ask me for my pictures. Day by day i am getting insecure about myself.. i am losing confidence in my self please help me out.

I can't say for sure because only he knows the truth. Me personally however, I wouldn't want to "cyber sext" anybody after knowing the person for a long time. It is weird. He calls you everyday and talks about the future. I don't see a problem. If he is not turned on by you, in person, then that is a problem.

[Suburban_Guy]

Originally Posted by DontH8Me

Are you talking about the guy you broke up with in this thread?

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post43560259

You got quite a bit of good advice in your first thread - did you read and understand it?

They never seem to appreciate the great advice given do they?

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by nargis

I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through facebook in the initial stage of our relationship we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. i know the problem is little weird but please bear with me.

Whenever we used to talk on phone we used to do sex chat. It lasted for 4 months. After 4 months we met for the first time..we started meeting in person. On every weekend we used to sleep with each other.. this thing lasted for 8-9 months. after that we again got into the long distance. Now the problem is .. he is not interested in virtual sex. He says.. we had already done everything in person.. now it feels weird talking about these stuff on phone or video. these things doesn't turn me on. But whenever we meet.. we do all these stuff.. do you think its normal... or Is my boyfriend is losing interest in me ? He calls me every day.. he talks about future but i think he is not physically attracted towards me any more. I lost lots of weight in last one year. My height is 5'3 but weight is only 40 kg.. so basically i am underweight .when we were friends once he told me that he has a thing for curvy women basically chubby girls. He never ask me for my pictures. Day by day i am getting insecure about myself.. i am losing confidence in my self please help me out.

It's normal to not be as enthusiastic about " virtual sex " after the real thing..... I'm all for sexting and a steamy phone call but that's just to keep the momentum going for when we see each other again

If he's still having sex with you then you are fine as he wouldn't if he wasn't attracted.... So you're fine

[Rise of virtue]

Cyber sex is less interesting after having the real thing. He probably just prefers to wait until you two can meet up.