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Old 07-24-2016, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Cowlitz County, WA
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I think it would be nice for a change to have a woman ask me out or show some interests at least. The way I look at it is somebody gotta make the first move. Otherwise, you'll never know if the person is interested or not. You may even regret it too.
I've tried asking a woman out about a month or so ago. She just old that she is "emotionally unavailable". I have no idea what that means lol. Maybe, thats her way of putting me in the friend zone. Anyways, I'm at the point where I don't wanna ask any women out even if I like them. I may just end up in their friend zone anyways.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:15 PM
 
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I think it would be nice for a change to have a woman ask me out or show some interests at least. The way I look at it is somebody gotta make the first move. Otherwise, you'll never know if the person is interested or not. You may even regret it too.
I've tried asking a woman out about a month or so ago. She just old that she is "emotionally unavailable". I have no idea what that means lol. Maybe, thats her way of putting me in the friend zone. Anyways, I'm at the point where I don't wanna ask any women out even if I like them. I may just end up in their friend zone anyways.
Hahaha! That's like shooting a basket the first time you play basketball and missing and then giving up basketball forever just because you missed the first shot.

Are you another guy who had no father in the picture growing up?
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:18 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I think it would be nice for a change to have a woman ask me out or show some interests at least. The way I look at it is somebody gotta make the first move. Otherwise, you'll never know if the person is interested or not. You may even regret it too.
I've tried asking a woman out about a month or so ago. She just old that she is "emotionally unavailable". I have no idea what that means lol. Maybe, thats her way of putting me in the friend zone. Anyways, I'm at the point where I don't wanna ask any women out even if I like them. I may just end up in their friend zone anyways.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I think it would be nice for a change to have a woman ask me out or show some interests at least. The way I look at it is somebody gotta make the first move. Otherwise, you'll never know if the person is interested or not. You may even regret it too.
I've tried asking a woman out about a month or so ago. She just old that she is "emotionally unavailable". I have no idea what that means lol. Maybe, thats her way of putting me in the friend zone. Anyways, I'm at the point where I don't wanna ask any women out even if I like them. I may just end up in their friend zone anyways.
It could be nothing about you, and more so she went stone cold after the last guy crapped on her so to speak. Maybe she wants to be in the right frame of mind in order to date you?

Kudos to you asking her out though.

It's true you never know what will happen if you don't.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hahaha! That's like shooting a basket the first time you play basketball and missing and then giving up basketball forever just because you missed the first shot.

Are you another guy who had no father in the picture growing up?
Uncalled for, don't be rude.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:26 PM
 
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It could be nothing about you, and more so she went stone cold after the last guy crapped on her so to speak. Maybe she wants to be in the right frame of mind in order to date you?

Kudos to you asking her out though.

It's true you never know what will happen if you don't.
Yes! crapped on and temporarily out of order is what it means.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:34 PM
 
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Uncalled for, don't be rude.
Many young guys who are afraid of rejection had distant or absent fathers. Because of this, theyt never learned the skills or the grit to be able to handle any type of rejection, nor do they have much in the terms of ability to navigate the terrain of relationships with women.

These guys would do well to seek out the guidance from older guys who have successful dating and relationship experience.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes! crapped on and temporarily out of order is what it means.
Yep that's exactly what it means. I've been there before.And you can't even imagine happiness so why date?
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes! crapped on and temporarily out of order is what it means.
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Many young guys who are afraid of rejection had distant or absent fathers. Because of this, theyt never learned the skills or the grit to be able to handle any type of rejection, nor do they have much in the terms of ability to navigate the terrain of relationships with women.

These guys would do well to seek out the guidance from older guys who have successful dating and relationship experience.
Nope that's lumping all men from a single mom into one broad group. Many are different or grew up in a loving family.
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Old 07-24-2016, 06:57 PM
 
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Yep that's exactly what it means. I've been there before.And you can't even imagine happiness so why date?
And yet we can agree it means temporary. Time to regroup, work out. Read a book. Get a tan. Have too much to drink and cheer that you didn't drunk-dial. It doesn't mean "Oh I hate men they're so mean and I'm going to decide they all just have the same lines, poor poor me, I always lose, they always win next time I'm going to call FWB first, so it's not confusing...."
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