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At least in my experience, if I don't approach, nothing is going to happen.
100% agreed I think every man can agree to this. I know some women on here will say "I approach men all the time!" Congrats you're in the minority of women who do it.
Yes, you've posted this quite often, so it must be true for you. Women approach you, and you don't care for that, you think it means they're slutty, because they must do that to all the guys if they're doing that to you. I just read your comment about this the other day.
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27
100% agreed I think every man can agree to this. I know some women on here will say "I approach men all the time!" Congrats you're in the minority of women who do it.
Will you just make up your mind for chrissakes? Or do only a small minority of women approach, and the guy they approach is you?!
Yes, you've posted this quite often, so it must be true for you. Women approach you, and you don't care for that, you think it means they're slutty, because they must do that to all the guys if they're doing that to you. I just read your comment about this the other day.
Will you just make up your mind for chrissakes? Or do only a small minority of women approach, and the guy they approach is you?!
I've dated two women who approached me in the past. Read carefully, I won't repeat myself again. As of now, I started to enjoy making the first move and didn't go out with women who showed interest first because I am not attracted to those women. So I have to do it. My mind is made up and this is how it will be. Sound clear enough for you?
I've dated two women who approached me in the past. Read carefully, I won't repeat myself again. As of now, I started to enjoy making the first move and didn't go out with women who showed interest first because I am not attracted to those women. So I have to do it. My mind is made up and this is how it will be. Sound clear enough for you?
Clear as mud, but you do you, we wouldn't have it any other way
Women often complain that men are too afraid to approach to conversate, i know it's traditional for men to break the ice at first but why won't women do the same?
Because we don't want to get the stuffing beaten out of us when his woman comes back from the ladies' room.
my thinking on this has changed some during reading this whole thread.
some of the women here have eloquently argued the counter-point and i repped them up as much as c-d would allow; however, i feel that although more women than i originally believed have the balls to approach men, the counter-point implies too much hyperbole -- i dont think its close to parity.
i think our societal gender roles are still fairly old school. if there was a party of 100 males and 100 females i think that 66 - 75 men would get a few of the womens contact info and only about 25 - 33 of the women would get 1 or 2 of the mens contact (a lot of people are too shy and would leave empty handed even after talking to someone most of the night -- i've been there).
this valentines day, i assume its mostly men who are ordering roses/ making dinner reservations/ buying chocolate/ taking her to see her favorite musician/ ... societal gender roles dictates that this is a mans job. i personally would love to take a day off and have my woman plan the date.
While I've only been approached by barely a handful of girls (and a few others who I knew already, who pursued me as more than a friend/acquaintance), there have probably been plenty more, who I wasn't even aware of. Sometimes girls approach and you don't even realize it. When I lived in Imperial Beach, California, I used to frequent a quickie mart up the street. The girl at the register used to flirt with me mildly. I didn't even really think it was flirting at the time and even if I did, she flirted with a lot of guys that came in there, so it seemed. She had a great and outgoing personality, the polar opposite of me.
ya, times like this make me really feel like punching a guy in the face for telling me to Man Up or grow a pair
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