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Yeah, I would just ask if he's into men also. I have gone out with guys that seemed a bit gay to me too and I have asked the question. They obviously don't have to tell the truth about it but I still ask. I understand if it's something the OP can't get past though if she's just into a different type of guy.
Well, I wouldn't mind if she asked me after like a few dates or so. First date, though? I'd think it'd be weird.
Framing of the question would be crucial.
I've played "Never Have I Ever..." with a group of friends. It's a drinking game where you say something that you've never done (usually sexually) and a person will drink if they've done it before. It's fun, innocent enough, and an interesting way to learn about your friends' sexual exploits.
If you've reached a point where you're having a little fun, like in that game, I think you can get by with finding out if there has ever been some "experimentation" in your SO's past. My GF, without provocation, has told me that she has made out and had oral sex with one of her close female friends in the past when they were drunk. It's not something we've ever asked one another though.
But yeah. On the first date, if a girl asks me directly if I've ever slept with guys or preferred guys sexually, I'd be kind of turned off at that moment.
And you don't see how that would be offensive to said guys, particularly if they are straight?
But it's not like I told them that I'm getting a vibe that they might be into other men. And honestly, I believe that when I got the vibe, I was right.
But it's not like I told them that I'm getting a vibe that they might be into other men. And honestly, I believe that when I got the vibe, I was right.
It's implied when you bluntly ask them if they've slept with men.
You are amusing, whether it's intentional or not, I'll give you that.
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