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In college, I got sick of living in fear and never dating. I started asking out every girl at a party or bar who was not with someone. I got rejected 90% or more of the time. I expected the less attractive girls woudl all say yes - 100% said no. Only fairly to highly attractive girls ever said yes. However many of the gave me fake phone numbers (Rape hotline number written on the back of my check book with lipstick - that was an awkward phone call). I di get to go on quite a few dates, but they were gnereally bad/awkward. After a while I learned I had a reputation and not a good one, so I stopped. Funny thing was I immediately went right back to being a scardy cat. From there on, I only dated people I already knew well from some event or organization. That lasted right up until my wife walked up to me and my friend in a bar and asked if she and her friend could put their coats on the extra chairs at our table.
You're gonna get rejected by most women you ask out because there are tons of factors that can affect a woman's response.
The dating approach that I feel works best for me is the approach you took after you have learned that you had a reputation.
In college, I got sick of living in fear and never dating. I started asking out every girl at a party or bar who was not with someone. I got rejected 90% or more of the time. I expected the less attractive girls woudl all say yes - 100% said no. Only fairly to highly attractive girls ever said yes. However many of the gave me fake phone numbers (Rape hotline number written on the back of my check book with lipstick - that was an awkward phone call). I di get to go on quite a few dates, but they were gnereally bad/awkward. After a while I learned I had a reputation and not a good one, so I stopped. Funny thing was I immediately went right back to being a scardy cat. From there on, I only dated people I already knew well from some event or organization. That lasted right up until my wife walked up to me and my friend in a bar and asked if she and her friend could put their coats on the extra chairs at our table.
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No LOL! Sorry but seriously thank you sharing that mate and yeah that might of been the way you approached, the timing but in short too many factors as the Jenk says
But you had enough of " living in fear and never dating " so you stepped up and went for it that's the main thing mate
I've seen your pictures and I'm stunned you get turned down.
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Originally Posted by Hand McLovin
I concur, they know me a lil bit, I know them a lil, so I know if its even worth the effort. I'm not very good at cold calling on women.
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Originally Posted by TJenkins602
Very few people are.
Yeah just randomly walking up to one on the street has never been my thing either a pub/club maybe...
But yes it's usually after a little bit of engaging whether in passing or a conversation I'll see what's what with her and go from there.
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