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Ugh- I remember when a friend who had a crush on me did this with other women. He was always putting down other women. It was just awful. Women who were quite attractive always had these awful flaws in his eyes. He wouldn't go so far as to say they were ugly, but say she had teeth like a horse, etc. We stopped talking fairly quickly after those comments got to be out of control. I don't think I ever heard him say one complimentary thing about another woman.
I have been dating a woman who has made some not so kind remarks about the men dating her sister and her best friend. Specifically she called them both ugly (to me personally, not to anyone else as far as I know).
We did a double date with her best friend and her friend's boyfriend. Before the date she told me the guy is ugly (physically speaking). So there we are on the date and we are walking behind her friend and she is whispering in my ear, "See how ugly he is, etc." Again, her comments could only be heard by me.
Finally, I showed her a photo of a good friend of mine as a potential set up for her friend. Her reaction, "He is ugly."
I might be old fashioned but I was raised to believe if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Also, it is probably not a good idea to judge people purely by their appearance, etc.
For what it is worth the lady making these "ugly" remarks is 26 years old. In addition, although I am a straight guy, I know the guy friend of mine is very successful with women and I think most women would rate him as above average in looks.
She has an ugly heart. That's pretty much all you need to know.
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