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Old 05-13-2018, 04:55 PM
 
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She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.

Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.

If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?
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Old 05-13-2018, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.

Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.

If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?
How long have you been dating?

Does she not know how her body works? Does she see a doctor? Is she on birth control?
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:05 PM
 
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Has she heard of birth control?
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:07 PM
 
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Dating 3 months. I see her about 24 hours a week. Sleep over 1-2 times a week. Sex 4 times.
She claims she is super familiar with her body and she will make an appt with a doctor.

she is lactating. she wants to stop it starting tomorrow. she is definitely not pregnant.
We are using condom + withdrawal. 99.8% + 98% safe.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:08 PM
 
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Fleetiebelle is right. Aside from a possible hysterectomy along the way, I would guess she might be pregnant.

Perimenopause?? lol, ok. Not impossible, but geez - hardly the most obvious thing it could be.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:09 PM
 
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Dating 3 months. I see her about 24 hours a week. Sleep over 1-2 times a week. Sex 4 times.
She claims she is super familiar with her body and she will make an appt with a doctor.

she is lactating. she wants to stop it starting tomorrow. she is definitely not pregnant.
We are using condom + withdrawal. 99.8% + 98% safe.
In that case, get her to a doctor. It could be a pituitary gland issue, or something like that. She is not a cow, and she shouldn't be lactating.

P.S. No birth control is 100%. That is still a possibility until she gets tested and it comes back negative.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:12 PM
 
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In that case, get her to a doctor. It could be a pituitary gland issue, or something like that. She is not a cow, and she shouldn't be lactating.

P.S. No birth control is 100%. That is still a possibility until she gets tested and it comes back negative.
She is lactating because she weened off her 4 year old just 6 months ago. When I started sucking her 2 months ago, I guess it induced milk production again.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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she is lactating.
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She is lactating because she weened off her 4 year old just 6 months ago. When I started sucking her 2 months ago, I guess it induced milk production again.


OMG you're dating one of THOSE women.

I don't blame her for being weird about sex, since she is not on the pill and has a 4-year-old that was still breast-feeding.

If you want worry-free sex, you need to be with someone who is using more reliable birth control herself. If this is going to be a consistent obstacle, you probably aren't a match.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:13 PM
 
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Fleetiebelle is right. Aside from a possible hysterectomy along the way, I would guess she might be pregnant.

Perimenopause?? lol, ok. Not impossible, but geez - hardly the most obvious thing it could be.
She is aged 42 and has hot flashes. Why is perimenopause impossible?
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:15 PM
 
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Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.
You're being played. She is looking for reasons not to have sex with you.

What on earth sense does it make not to have sex because she hasn't had a period? What will not having sex do to change that?
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