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Last week I started talking to someone I met on a dating app. We talked for hours and picked up the next day, in which she gave me her number to text more. She talked every day all throughout the day all last week and asked questions to get to know each other better. She said she was beginning to like me. She would even text me good morning, and send me selfies.
She told me some of her hobbies and how she is an aunt to a 4 year old and loves it. We settled on going out for coffee this past Sunday. When Sunday came, she told me we had to reschedule due to her niece being sent to the ER the night before for a fever of 101. She said her sister needed help as her niece was being very clingy and wasn't resting. I told her no problem I understood, as I had a family cookout to attend to in the late afternoon anyways.
We talked for a bit yesterday and she said didn't know when her next day off would be, but she said we could possibly meet up after she gets out of work on Thursday. She seemed a bit distant, and we didn't talk for the rest of the day at all. I decided not to text her today to give her space, but I am bit confused as to why she suddenly switched up on me.
She didn't "switch up" on you. The new term is serendipidating. Serendipity + dating.
She ghosted you because she found someone new, or she was already with someone and she was testing the waters.
Thats a bit of a stretch and an assumption.
It could be possible she is just busy, Ive done the same thing and its not because Im not interested but this adulting stuff can be time consuming. There has been times when Ive seen a message and I remind myself to text them back once I finish doing what Im doing and end up remembering HOURS later.... it happens its life.
It could be possible she is just busy, Ive done the same thing and its not because Im not interested but this adulting stuff can be time consuming. There has been times when Ive seen a message and I remind myself to text them back once I finish doing what Im doing and end up remembering HOURS later.... it happens its life.
That's what I figured as well. We are all busy and stuff happens in life. I wasn't sure if I should text her today or if I should wait. I don't want her to feel smothered, but I also want to show her I am interested.
That's what I figured as well. We are all busy and stuff happens in life. I wasn't sure if I should text her today or if I should wait. I don't want her to feel smothered, but I also want to show her I am interested.
Maybe check in with her Weds afternoon and ask if she is still on for a meet up after work. Her answer there will likely be the key.
Last week I started talking to someone I met on a dating app. We talked for hours and picked up the next day, in which she gave me her number to text more. She talked every day all throughout the day all last week and asked questions to get to know each other better. She said she was beginning to like me. She would even text me good morning, and send me selfies.
She told me some of her hobbies and how she is an aunt to a 4 year old and loves it. We settled on going out for coffee this past Sunday. When Sunday came, she told me we had to reschedule due to her niece being sent to the ER the night before for a fever of 101. She said her sister needed help as her niece was being very clingy and wasn't resting. I told her no problem I understood, as I had a family cookout to attend to in the late afternoon anyways.
We talked for a bit yesterday and she said didn't know when her next day off would be, but she said we could possibly meet up after she gets out of work on Thursday. She seemed a bit distant, and we didn't talk for the rest of the day at all. I decided not to text her today to give her space, but I am bit confused as to why she suddenly switched up on me.
Somebody she may have been holding out on came through and she's going for him.
That's what I figured as well. We are all busy and stuff happens in life. I wasn't sure if I should text her today or if I should wait. I don't want her to feel smothered, but I also want to show her I am interested.
Yeah that's what I am going to do. Thank you for the advice!
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