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I never ever thought he would cheat and yes the fact she was 19 made it even more damming thank you and I need to do what's best for me and my kids I realise that now
Do you want to live with a selfish partner who will lie to you and betray you when it suits him? Decent people deserve better in a partner. Let him go be with the 19-year-old who is cut from the same cloth as he is.
I hope you will focus on your health and your children. Energy spent on him is a true waste of your time and life.
I never ever thought he would cheat and yes the fact she was 19 made it even more damming �� thank you and I need to do what's best for me and my kids I realise that now
Ask yourself if you would be better off without him. You already know the answer...
I never ever thought he would cheat and yes the fact she was 19 made it even more damming �� thank you and I need to do what's best for me and my kids I realise that now
Our son is 4 that we have together but I have 2 from another relationship that's he's practically brought up as his own, I have been trying for nearly 2 years now
Have you gone through relationship counseling? Illnesses are very hard to manage in relationships and you may need additional help.
8 yrs is a long time to be together. I think your relationship deserves at least a fight before calling it quits. I say this because if you quit the relationship now, you still will have a lot of issues that will ultimately affect the next relationship you get in. Its best to work those issues out now (being cheated on, not being supported in time of illness, the depression that goes along with an illness) with a professional therapist in couples therapy. This is the only way I see to avoid having baggage.
It may turn out the relationship doesn't work but at least you talked through the issues before walking away.
A lot of therapist are covered under health insurance plans. Not certain about couples therapy though.
His cheating would have done it for me. I could never trust a man who cheated. But, that's me.
Take care of yourself, think things through and do what's best for you, not necessarily him. It is tough that you have a young child together but that's not always a good reason to stay.
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