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People who hate women are confident as well and hold eye contact while telling them why they suck...
What does a positive experience and confidence have to do with each other?
Ummm...
Positive experiences breed confidence. People don't gain or lose confidence in a vacuum. I don't care who you are. You can puff up your confidence till you're like blimp, but if you have bad experiences, your confidence is gonna take a hit.
You can deflate yourself all you want, but good experience after good experience is going to build your confidence. I would know.
That said, it is not good to base your confidence on outside sources other than, maybe your achievements.
When I was in my early teens I remember that I had a habit of making eye contact with any girls that I found cute, then I would hold that eye contact and give them a flirty smile (I was pretty much trying to say "heeey cutie, what's up?" with my eyes), and then I just walked away and waited for them to make the next move.
I think I was trying to mimic Leonardo DiCaprio when he had that scene in "Titanic" where he held eye contact with the character Rose for the first time.
This actually seemed to be quite well-received;
several of those girls ended up approaching me a few minutes later, so it certainly seems like a pretty positive sign if a guy is able to hold a flirty eye contact for a while.
I was definitely much more likely to be approached by the girls that I had made eye contact with like this, probably because I showed some playful interest without appearing "needy" in any way - I typically did this if it was slightly tricky to start a conversation with those girls at those specific moments.
Maybe I should start doing that again.
LMAO
I'm sorry, but that reminded me of that "Briona" video on YouTube for some reason. The staring, the "flirty smile"...
...but it works according to you. so I guess.
As for me, I rarely stare. If I do stare at you, it is because you look enough like somebody I know or knew to make me wonder if you are in fact that person. Then after a few seconds, I go on with my business.
My point is that confident men are not waiting for women to approach them. They are confident enough to do it themselves. Not being able to approach women is pretty much the definition of lacking confidence.
Hey, I don't approach women because I'm busy with my life, and women are always approaching me. So why bother? And what else, the women approaching me are 10X more attractive then the women I think about.
I guess I lack confidence in my ability to be invisible to women until I approach.
That's an amazing eye contact skill. Never knew women can read specific details from just looking at a mans eyes. A woman would probably slap me if she could read my eyes, Lmao
You need to teach me how to transmit: "HELLO THERE!, give me a holla, my number is 480-XXX-XXXX. I like to take you out sometimes" just using my eyes. Lol
I remember that one call I got
ME: Hello?
Woman: Hey there, sexy!!!
ME: Who this?
WOMAN: You don't remember me? You gave me that eye contact.
ME: Yeah, vaguely. How did you get this number?
WOMAN: It was in your eyes...And so was your address and I'm coming over.
Not for nothing, but so would a predator that hated women and wanted to hurt or kill them.
Is it at all possible that all men could be ladie's men until they find that one special lady?
Could be. How would you really know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are always right?
I don't know. Ask the group of men that aren't...ladies men.
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