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Isn't that going to vary from woman to woman, though? Like what's off putting to one might be attractive to another. Attraction is subjective, after all.
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Originally Posted by FreeIceCream
What makes you think I'm "on the spectrum"? Because someone has trouble socially that makes them autistic?
Others have given me advice here, I don't recall getting any from you. Do you have any constructive advice for me? I'm all ears.
Why? You are not really open to it? I gave you a suggestion and you dismissed it. I am guessing whatever it is about you that is offputting is noticeably by many women, otherwise you wouldn't have a problem, would you?
1. Did you forget that you weren’t posting under your OP name of “free ice cream”?
2. Referring to not being able to have sex with a woman as “being denied” —that they’re “denying” this as if it is rightfully yours, gives the impression that you were ENTITLED to this. You aren’t entitled to anything and that’s why that thought is troublesome. It’s the same thought of “getting back at women” that incels in the news have expressed after acting out in violent ways.
Bwahahahahaha. He forgot to change back to the other username.
If he can’t get sex what’s wrong with prostitutes if he’s not hurting anyone?
Men tend to have high sex drives so he should just go without sex if he can’t find a relationship?
I doubt that adults should be telling their parents about their sex lives no matter what form they take.
OP seemed to see sex as the reason for dating, therefore why not just cut to the chase? Didn't indicate any likelihood that he'd have an emotional involvement with a woman, so save everyone some trouble.
Oh no!
So hes been 21 for the past 2 years, but at one point he was 22.
And the OP name was mysteriously banned, but using an older account with many posts.
Oh Boy.
The OP continues to argue that going to prostitutes isn't sleazy. So, if it's not sleazy, then why does he go to great lengths to keep his "hobby" a secret?
As this thread has gone on and you've continued to post, O.P., what has formed in my mind is a picture of someone who feels entitled to near-instant sexual gratification yet also wants a close and loving connection/relationship with a woman. Sometimes a guy can get lucky and get both on the same night, but if you're putting out the same vibe out in the dating wilds as you are on this forum, it's not surprising that you've come up empty when it comes to getting a girlfriend, let alone getting laid by an amateur, so to speak. Your attitude is not only off-putting, it sends out seriously negative signals. If a woman doesn't feel safe with you (and your negativity and sense of entitlement plays as "avoid this man at all costs") you're not going to get laid by a quality woman, let alone one who will want to form a relationship with you.
Exactly. A relationship with a "normal" woman (in the OP's parlance) is reciprocal. You have to care about her as she cares about you. It's not all about getting what you want when you want it. If all the OP wants is to use a woman's body to masturbate and wants nothing to do with her otherwise, then he should continue seeing pros.
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