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After 10yrs of marriage and two kids with my ex. He no longer wanted intimacy, he never outright denied me but when i would try to initiate he would kiss me on the head and turn around. Like your story he would happily get Mod cut. but never reciprocated. He never talked down to me but, but i would dress up, do my makeup and hair and he wouldn't notice. It had a huge impact on my self esteem. When i finally tried to have a discussion about it, he started having performance anxiety. We ended up divorcing because he refused to seek help for his issues and i couldn't stay in a relationship with someone who refused to acknowledge he had issues. I think i have had more sex in one week with my (now) ex than i did in the last two years of my marriage.
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Wow ellybelly yeah your story seems similar an when I bring stuff up about him never reciprocating I get told he would Mod cut.if I would ever Mod cut. without complaining about it afterwards he says I throw it in his face when actually I'm just trying to say I have needs I want met too u know an when I bring up him not wanting me I get told well he can't get turned on when we constantly fight about it but that still isn't an excuse y he couldn't just tell me I looked good when I put on the lingerie or even a quick kiss plus when we fight over me being mad all he wants is Mod cut. he says hell just go get a girl who will but then later says he's never cheated so idk
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And u guys are right I do feel bad about myself all the time an just think maybe I'm not good enough for him or something I don't have a great self esteem anymore
Wow ellybelly yeah your story seems similar an when I bring stuff up about him never reciprocating I get told he would [snip] if I would ever [snip] without complaining about it afterwards he says I throw it in his face when actually I'm just trying to say I have needs I want met too u know an when I bring up him not wanting me I get told well he can't get turned on when we constantly fight about it but that still isn't an excuse y he couldn't just tell me I looked good when I put on the lingerie or even a quick kiss plus when we fight over me being mad all he wants is [snip] he says hell just go get a girl who will but then later says he's never cheated so idk
Your bf is a selfish pig. Im sure he is stressed with life in general but its no excuse to treat you this way. I understand you not wanting to break up your family but you don't want to raise children in this environment either. Its time you seek a therapist who can help bring you together or help guide you out.
I hate fighting all the time just this morning I made coffee an breakfast which I don't do often I'm not a morning person an I asked did he want me to get him some an bring to him he started yelling saying no because I don't do anything he wants when he wants it an that if I get it for him I'll throw it in his face which is a total lie and then I said y are u starting a fight he said he's not but since I accused him of starting he fight he called me buckee meaning my teeth he knows this really bothers me then I started yelling back an he called me a prostitute which is just so ignorant and also not true since I've been with Just him all these years then I locked myself in bathroom tile he shut up he got dressed an left saying he's giving me my wish of him leaving just to come back an hour later acting like nothing happened so idk plus oh yeah I guess according to him I'm the problem the one who fights about everything an should just leave him alone lol he will start yelling for me to just leave him alone while calling me names like what am I supposed to do just let him say all this mean stuff to me an me not say anything back idk its killing me
Yeah like I said he gets bad stomach pain every so often then has trouble getting or staying erect but won't go to a dr other times everything works fine
Do you have anywhere you can go? At the very very least, sounds like you both could use a reset.
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