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OK, so do a bit of 'game playing'. Don't give him 4 nights to choose from. That is saying I am wide open. Say the only night I have free is whatever. Make him re-arrange or whatever he needs to do if you are any sort of priority at all.
It seems like responses to women are always skewed in the: “he might just want sex...” category. Well maybe! But maybe it’s the other way around?
OP- if you’re just interested in seeing where this goes, then yes, respond. He may be just interested in seeing where this goes as well!
I was interested to see where it could go. I felt like we were very different and wasn’t sure I saw a future but I enjoyed his company. I didn’t need a commitment like tomorrow but I also didn’t want to feel used. So now I’m wondering if I should bother responding and clearly stating that or is it even worth the effort.
I was interested to see where it could go. I felt like we were very different and wasn’t sure I saw a future but I enjoyed his company. I didn’t need a commitment like tomorrow but I also didn’t want to feel used. So now I’m wondering if I should bother responding and clearly stating that or is it even worth the effort.
It isn't going anywhere. Only respond if you are wanting casual sex and company.
Her own words indicate otherwise, though. There's hope dripping from every line.
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Originally Posted by RbccL
OP- if you’re just interested in seeing where this goes, then yes, respond. He may be just interested in seeing where this goes as well!
It seems like she's only interested in seeing if it goes the way she wants it to go. She doesn't come across as someone who wants truly casual sex here.
Her own words indicate otherwise, though. There's hope dripping from every line.
It seems like she's only interested in seeing if it goes the way she wants it to go. She doesn't come across as someone who wants truly casual sex here.
Yea it seems he just wants casual from his actions and also when I ended it originally I ended it saying “we want different things “ and he just said ok, he enjoyed hanging with me and wishes me all the luck and to stay in touch.
Yea it seems he just wants casual from his actions and also when I ended it originally I ended it saying “we want different things “ and he just said ok, he enjoyed hanging with me and wishes me all the luck and to stay in touch.
Lol I mean I am okay with a hookup just not a booty call, if that makes sense. I guess I feel like a booty call right now to him.
I'm not really sure what the difference is? If you want to consistently just hookup with him then that's a booty call. Sounds like you want to just date for the purpose of getting to know someone.
What were the excuses he was giving you for cancelling? Was it because of his kids? Or was he not even giving you an explanation?
Also if you've been out with him only twice and you've already slept with him, then yes it could be just about sex for him. I'm just saying sleeping with someone so early on without any exclusivity discussion can make it difficult to decipher the man's intentions.
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