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Both you and this guy are just getting out of past relationships--you with your FWB (who was also a former boyfriend); he with his serious ex-girlfriend. Neither of you seem to be in the right headspace for a solid, emotionally healthy relationship. Between that and the fact that you don't seem to be within driving distance of one another, I don't see why you'd want to become involved with this guy, but you do you.
If you just want to have a bit of fun, go ahead. Don't expect more than that from this man, though.
If you want something more out of a potential relationship, you'd do well to "next" this man and find someone who's emotionally available, mature (mature people don't go all high-school-y when it comes to social media), and not all hung up on his ex.
Last edited by Formerly Known As Twenty; 02-13-2021 at 09:45 AM..
I don’t know? So I got here early this morning (he’s out at the store right now). I saw him out the corner of my eye go look at her Instagram story before he headed out.
What Threestep was saying is that you should have headed for the door when you saw this man look at his ex's social media. He did it right in front of you when you'd hardly stepped off the plane.
He's not even into you enough to let go of stalking her media pages for Valentine's Day weekend. No doubt he'll be taking his phone into the bathroom with him and constantly checking his phone while you're sleeping or showering, too.
This guy is not relationship material right now. Have fun if that's all that you want from him, but don't get attached.
What Threestep was saying is that you should have headed for the door when you saw this man look at his ex's social media. He did it right in front of you when you'd hardly stepped off the plane.
He's not even into you enough to let go of stalking her media pages for Valentine's Day weekend. No doubt he'll be taking his phone into the bathroom with him and constantly checking his phone while you're sleeping or showering, too.
This guy is not relationship material right now. Have fun if that's all that you want from him, but don't get attached.
So you’re saying he shouldn’t even be checking her social media while I’m here?
So you’re saying he shouldn’t even be checking her social media while I’m here?
Becky, he's still hung up on his ex. You're a distraction at best in this scenario and obviously not enough of one to keep him from obsessing over his former girlfriend when you're standing right in front of him.
What are your expectations of this man? Do you just want to get laid this weekend and any other time when it's convenient for both of you (and with you a plane ride away and assuming that you paid for your own flight, I hope that it's damn good sex since you pretty much paid for the privilege) or do you wish to eventually form a serious relationship with him?
So you’re saying he shouldn’t even be checking her social media while I’m here?
So you are okay with him cyberstalking his ex while you are there?
So why even ask if he still wants his ex back? It sounds like you are fine with it if he does.
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So you’re saying he shouldn’t even be checking her social media while I’m here?
Yes, that's exactly what is being said. If he was over her, he wouldn't be looking at her social media while you are there, very disrespectful, or ever.
Are you really this desperate for a relationship? Value yourself.
Who's he going to be thinking of when he ****s you? I'd be feeling pretty humiliated by now if I were you.
You think he’s going to be think of his ex while we have s*x with me?
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