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Originally Posted by Bootsamillion
... having good self esteem is generated from happiness within yourself.
Happiness and/or contentment in your life, with yourself, by yourself and enjoying it to the fullest whether you have a partner or not ...
Being yourself at all times, radiating good vibes, being caring and thoughtful of others...
..work on doing things you enjoy in your life, live it to the fullest each day, make new friends, be compassionate, do voluntary work, strive to be a better person and your self esteem will never be an issue.
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This is 90-95% of the secret. The remaining 5-10% is
continuing to be happy and content when things don't go as hoped, e.g., if a person you are attracted to is not attracted to you; or if one you are currently with becomes attracted to someone else.
Many, "strong," "confident" people break down when they are "rejected" because they cannot maintain inner happiness
under all circumstances due to weak acceptance of, and belief in, their own value.
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