Is My Wife Cheating? (kid, attractive, versus, wedding)
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I am disappointed in my long-term CD members. It usually takes you less than 18 pages to dig up history on a bullcrapper.
I don't spend my time researching C-D users' past posts. I have better things to do with my time. However, yesterday I received a tip from someone who shall remain nameless. That's when I went searching.
And by the way, obtaining a divorce decree doesn't mean it just now - or recently - happened.
My divorce was 20+ years ago, and I recently had to obtain my divorce degree for a governmental reason. Just because I ordered it doesn't mean that's when the divorce took place. OP likely needed it to prove he was divorced when he wanted to remarry.
Not that I am in any way defending the OP. It seems to me the OP spends a lot of time grousing online about politics and that may be just one of the reasons why his wife gets busy elsewhere.
The OP has not provided us his actual marital history, he has not provided his actual parental status, but he sure reveals a bit of his character by what he does - and does not - post on C-D.
I don't spend my time researching C-D users' past posts. I have better things to do with my time. However, yesterday I received a tip from someone who shall remain nameless. That's when I went searching.
And by the way, obtaining a divorce decree doesn't mean it just now - or recently - happened.
My divorce was 20+ years ago, and I recently had to obtain my divorce degree for a governmental reason. Just because I ordered it doesn't mean that's when the divorce took place. OP likely needed it to prove he was divorced when he wanted to remarry.
Not that I am in any way defending the OP. It seems to me the OP spends a lot of time grousing about politics and that may be just one of the reasons why his wife gets busy elsewhere.
The OP has not provided us his actual marital history, he has not provided his actual parental status, but he sure reveals a bit of his character by what he does - and does not - post on C-D.
What do you want to know?
I’ve offered full transparency here up to and including offering my phone number and anything else anyone wishes to see.
Again. I’m sorry that some people think this has been a BS post.
I divorced my first wife at the end of 2015 and met my current one a few months later, though we didn’t actually get married legally and ceremonially until Nov of 2020. And I have evidence that suggests that she may have jumped into bed with another man as soon as just four months later, in March of 2021.
I also believe she may have done it multiple times in November and December of last year as well. She confessed to one. But that date and the info that I have, don't match up. Hence why I believe it was at least four times. Starting in March of last year.
The eight month gap, not enough info. So presumably she was straight during that time. But I cannot say for sure.
I’ve offered full transparency here up to and including offering my phone number and anything else anyone wishes to see.
Again. I’m sorry that some people think this has been a BS post.
I divorced my first wife at the end of 2015 and met my current one a few months later, though we didn’t actually get married legally and ceremonially until Nov of 2020. And I have evidence that suggests that she may have jumped into bed with another man as soon as just four months later.
Are you still refusing to have sex with her because you hate using condoms? Poor woman, that constant rejection must really sting.
Many users here who post about problems asking for advice have OCD and ADD. It seems to me that your time is better spent getting formal therapy for those things. How else can we help you? We can't. We've given you so many good answers. Answers that can be used as a catalyst for truly solving this situation. There's nothing more we can do. Keeping this thread going with angst questions isn't helping you. It's keeping you stuck.
Do you realize how obsessive your posts sound, especially the ones asking why, why, why she won't tell you the truth? "The truth" is beside the point. You know now that there's a problem, probably a big problem. But refusing to address the OCD and ADD is keeping you stuck in asking WHY instead of taking action.
These types of threads reminds me of how many years I was stuck until I finally took action. It's not like I'm being holier than thou. Many of us understand your OCD and ADD problem. The point is to take action about it, not stay stewing in confusion and angst. To me, it seems that individual and couple's therapy is in order.
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