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If I had a fetish for anything, it would be just to watch her. Once. Just for closure. I wouldn’t even necessarily call it a fetish so much as therapeutic. I can’t explain it.
And here we are. 430AM. And she left for work. An hour and a half early.
Had a change of clothes and a bar of soap with her.
It was “for a co worker”
Of course it was.
I just flat out told her to enjoy her hookup.
She just rolled her eyes.
I think it should be open season for me to do some looking now.
So you really told her she needs to be out in 3 weeks?
Please, please do yourself a favor and follow through with this even though this is the most painful thing in your whole life. Even if you have to help her move her stuff.
You need to find peace. You already know she is a sl*t, you will never get closure. But you already know she is giving it to just anybody. So accept that fact and try to shut out feelings until it is done and over with. Consult an attorney, get her out. Don't get sucked into lies and promises. You know she will never change.
i only read 1 page so far. why are you forcing to stay with someone you clearly dislike. if you dont want to take breaks; own separate homes; stay out with strangers overnite; sexting strangers; ... then just leave.
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Originally Posted by Des-Lab
What I think I need to do is not bring it up anymore. Ride it out for a few weeks. Hopefully, she'll let her guard down. And then maybe she'll start getting sloppy.
or you can just leave.
if divorce is too expensive then i guess try to work it out ?
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So you really told her she needs to be out in 3 weeks?
Please, please do yourself a favor and follow through with this even though this is the most painful thing in your whole life. Even if you have to help her move her stuff.
You need to find peace. You already know she is a sl*t, you will never get closure. But you already know she is giving it to just anybody. So accept that fact and try to shut out feelings until it is done and over with. Consult an attorney, get her out. Don't get sucked into lies and promises. You know she will never change.
They’re married. It’s not that easy that you can just kick a spouse to the curb because you are annoyed with them, particularly if they are both on a lease or dead. The OP is not a landlord, and even if he was, he still didn’t give enough notice.
They’re married. It’s not that easy that you can just kick a spouse to the curb because you are annoyed with them, particularly if they are both on a lease or dead. The OP is not a landlord, and even if he was, he still didn’t give enough notice.
She is still alive and probably on the deed.
Yes, he cannot legally kick her out. But he can tell her to GTFO. Offer assistance with carrying stuff and getting a moving truck. And hope she actually leaves.
Yes, he cannot legally kick her out. But he can tell her to GTFO. Offer assistance with carrying stuff and getting a moving truck. And hope she actually leaves.
That would be another interesting turn to this saga, to say the least.
That said, if he wants to split up, the fastest/easiest option is for him to leave, not ask her to leave.
OP, are you going to seek full custody? If not, you need to understand that you'll be the one who's leaving. And forget about your cuckhold/peeping tom fantasy. Maybe get a professional for that one?
OP, are you going to seek full custody? If not, you need to understand that you'll be the one who's leaving. And forget about your cuckhold/peeping tom fantasy. Maybe get a professional for that one?
I sure would. I would in no way want my child(ren) around such a......ahem......loose human being.
She drove, picked them up and PAID FOR THE HOTEL ROOM????????????????????
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and probably on the deed. 