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l don't think it's much to go on atm, more so whether he shows any interest from here is the thing. lf he doesn't you'll know the kiss was just what it was, but if he does then he's just taking it slow.
Not everyone jumps straight in , thank the Gods , like all these others dates did but where are they now ? Means nothing.
I don't understand not being upfront, especially when so much is done online. You don't have to say it to their face. After I filed for divorce, I had 3 dates with guys where I knew it wasn't going to work out soon after we met in person. I made sure to sleep on it and then the next day told them it wasn't going to work between us. They were all surprised. One guy wanted to know why I had kissed him if I wasn't feeling it. I don't know. Maybe just to confirm via another sense that there was no chemistry? I have no regrets on the kissing them part. So, maybe I led them on for most of the date and the night after, but I didn't ghost anyone and I didn't lead anyone on any longer than overnight.
Current boyfriend got brought back to my place to stay the night the first day I met him. We moved in together in March. If this relationship goes sour, it won't have anything to do with what we did or did not do on that first date.
I've always known almost immediately if I will have chemistry with someone or not. I've never had stuff 'develop'. Maybe it's because I am in my 40s, but I have no patience to go slow when it comes to meeting in person and kissing. I don't want to waste my time on something that isn't going where I want it to go.
Thank goodness he was not some deranged mad man. Don't understand how single mothers are cool with bringing some stranger home and moving him in. I'm sure it must be good news for the bums though since there has to be a shortage of quality men that any penis will do.
Thank goodness he was not some deranged mad man. Don't understand how single mothers are cool with bringing some stranger home and moving him in. I'm sure it must be good news for the bums though since there has to be a shortage of quality men that any penis will do.
Oh jeez! Did she even say she was a single mom (if she did, I missed it)?
Plus he moved in after they were dating sometime, that’s what most people do, so I don’t quite understand your hostile comments. With your logic all women who are single moms shouldn’t date or get into relationships.
Oh jeez! Did she even say she was a single mom (if she did, I missed it)?
Plus he moved in after they were dating sometime, that’s what most people do, so I don’t quite understand your hostile comments. With your logic all women who are single moms shouldn’t date or get into relationships.
Yes a lot of extremism. If you’re not still “holding out for the right one” at 63, or a born-again virgin after that right first one, I guess then you’re humping everything in sight or settling for any old dick. Whatever.
Had a second date last night and he still hasn’t tried to kiss me. I know it happens but for me I think I’ve kissed every guy I went out with by the second date. Given, last night when we were parting ways it was a crowded area and he did give a prolonged tight hug with a kiss on a cheek, but I just find it a bit odd he hasn’t tried to kiss me yet. I’m assuming he’s still somewhat interested since he texted after the date saying he had a good time. He definitely seems like a nice guy who may be a bit shy/awkward so I’m trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.
Anyone else here to a few dates in with someone they were interested and no kiss?
I would be very happy and unconcerned if a guy behaved this way on the 2nd date. I'v been ordered to have sex on the 4th date, also dropped after the 2nd date for refusing sex. He's obviously interested, there's no reason to fret.
He's a gentleman. Hold on tight. There are very few out there anymore.
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