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It means he's a dirty old man. If he's married, he's being playful or lecherous. If he's not married, there's probably a good reason. Besides, you don't want to be taking care of an incontinent old man when you are 55.
Now hold on a second!!!
What's up with the age bashing?
I am 40 and I look great!! People say I look like I'm in my early 30's.
I am NOT a "dirty old man."
If in fact I was to wink at a nice looking girl in her twenties married or not i wouldn't want her to think that.
Thanks for your replies everyone.He did it once when i looked at him when he was stood across the room, and a couple of times when he was sat opposite me.This is the guy i like now.I smiled back when he did that.He has also done other things, such as when he stood up to walk past me when we were sat next to each other, he touched my leg as he stood up,lol, and he held my hand as he walked past.Other things he has done are he had his arm round me and he touched my neck and my hair,things like that.
Just to add afew more things, we do keep intouch with each other, but we havent said if we are going to have a relationship yet or anything.There are some things to sort out.
He is single by the way.He got out of a relationship last year.
He hasn't had sex in a year and he is so wanting to take out a years frustration of the lack of on you. He is giving you signals that he would lay you out on that table if you would let him.
Some of us just take it with a grain of salt. Heck at my work, I get hit up by contractors and customers frequently. My vest pocket is full of their business cards (the old 'call me sometime if you would like to go do dinner' routine.....). Im guessing the guys that all 'wink' at you are just flirting, and dont really mean much of it. It might just give 'em a heart attack if you winked back, lol. Or, maybe this one in particular, really does like you.
There are quite a few 'older' guys out there that can look good.
I was afraid of that....about him wanting to get into my pants i mean, if that is only what he is after...
There's another problem i have aswell, and that is he takes drugs, and i have never touched drugs in my life and never want to.I havent told him how i feel about his drug use though.He does seem like a friendly person so far, but from the responses i've had here, well some of them, and because i dont know him very well yet, i'm going to have to think about it.
Drugs?
Like what kind...? Viagra? Anti-depressants? What?
Illegal? If it is illegal you should stay away. That is dangerous.
I am 40 and I look great!! People say I look like I'm in my early 30's.
I am NOT a "dirty old man."
If in fact I was to wink at a nice looking girl in her twenties married or not i wouldn't want her to think that.
Thanks for putting that in her head. [End Quote]
I am 49. Keep myself in good shape. I don't look a day older than 44 and a half. I am happily married, I think. It does not stop me from noticing an attractive younger female. I will flirt a little, if smiling and hopefully tastefully admiring, means flirting. Most seem to enjoy the attention regardless of the age difference. But I guess by some standards, I might as well be dead.
He winked at you because he sees that you are very interested in him. He might be doing drugs, but men are not stupid , and can tell you are eye-balling him a little too closely. So he knows that you like him and is probably flattered. If he hasnt made any moves yet, then he might not be that interested. But you need to tell him that you mean business because rubbing your leg is his question on weather you are receptive to him or not. Probably he wants to know if you will become his lover, and is waiting for a response from you. However I would recommend against going for it, because men who do drugs want their women to do drugs with them and if your a clean person, your going to end up addicted and never being able to live life normally without the drugs.
All men want sex, thats a given. The question is weather or not you're willing to just have sex with him without a commitment, or ask for one. It seems to me that this man is not seriously interested in you, but wants to test the waters in hopes that you'll say that you will be his lover without strings attached. Anywho, if you like him, I dont see any reason why you cant ask for exclusivity and commitment from him. He might say yes, but dont beleive everything he says just because he says it. Make sure you dont get sucked into his world and end up addicted to anything.
And more than anything take care of yourself first. Since I do beleive you are infatuated with this man by the way you talk about him and let him touch you, I strongly suggest you think with your head before doing something you might regret the next morning.
Speaking of....what ever happened to Whitney and Bobby Brown??
Come on, i'm serious.I'm talking about illegal drugs, such as cannabis and cocaine.
Cocaine - bad news; weed- meh, but if you are totally clean you might want to steer clear. The guy has probably been doing drugs since high school and it's a way of life for him. Clearly he's into you.
Hmmm.... I get winked at quite often. Most of the times it is in response to a casual greeting as we pass each other in the hallways. I have no idea what to make of this, other than that it's an American habit? The men have all been white men, senior to me in position and age. I'm quite sure they mean nothing by it, as they are courteous and friendly during meetings and conversations
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