But He Knows I Didn't Mean It....

[TrishP7]

Originally Posted by ATLater

LOL I can't blame her. Some people on here are so quick to throw stones, the one about her son was just nasty the poster had no reason to say that. I feel if you aren't going to say anything helpful then dont say anything. There is a such a thing as constructive criticism. But your son will abuse women one day because of you is not helpful. The person who wrote that was being mean and hateful. The op has done nothing to deserve that from that poster. I think some people here just go overboard; especially since you dont know the state of mind some people are in. she could have been really upset and she comes here for some feedback and hears

You're nuts and your boyfriend will leave you
Ig I were your man, I'd run away from you
You're a crazy woman and your son will abuse women

who is taht helping.

I totally agree. Some people can be so brutal and get out of hand with their comments. The first time I read Natalay's post, I knew people were going to say hurtful and stupid things. Thats why I made light of the situation. The girl obviously knows she was wrong and has been very mature with the advice that she's been receiving from certain people.

But the ones that are rude and heartless..i wish their posts would be removed.

Once I read a post about this woman seeking advice becuse she just found out that her husband cheating on her..obviously this is a heartfelt and serious issue. Some folks started cracking jokes about Lorena Bobbit and how the wife should cut off her husband's penis. I mean come on! That is not funny..as you said before, you have no idea what state of mind the OP is in.

Its different if the topic of discussion is mild and funny..bring on the jokes! But relax when someone is genuinely seeking advice and support.

[Tzaphkiel]

Originally Posted by natalayjones

Being overly dramatic I tend to say a lot of things when I'm upset. I just want him to be as pissed off as I am. he yells that I'm being childish. he says I have a habit of saying things I don't mean when I'm angry. I get upset and run off at the mouth, just like a kid . I know the bottom line is that I need to grow up and control my temper.

she has admitted she has an out of control temper
and she has also stated she'd use physical violence

that's HER talking about herself
not us

[johnycakes]

Closed at OP's request.