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The red flags are out there, I mean her telling him that she does not want to have to the explain things away in her mind. That is a little kuko (sp?)...
I think if they ever travel together it will be an affair in the making...
What a dummy. He's setting himself up for a major sexual harrassment case and so is she, once you think about it. I hope things never turn sour between the two of them because it won't end well.
I wanted to continue this thread because I think it may assist others that may be in this silly situation or contemplating it.
This is cryptic as I am just remembering what he told me and this was two days ago:
No loss of jobs on either front.
When the opportunity comes he has told her he will do a little finger-walking (hopefully you guys/gals know what I mean). He did try twice...the 1st she said it wouldn't be a "good" time and the other she blocked him, but he got close.
She has mentioned how his “wife” (if he had one) would feel if she knew what he was doing...
The last comment is VERY strange; anyway I will continue to update this thread as information comes in....
i think there's a pot of trouble brewing... what if they start having sex, then after awhile she wants to leave her family but he wants to keep it as a fling... how would they be able to work together after that????
I have been in this situation except that the guy never just said it was a fling. The two of us had a real crush on each other & we ended up kissing & hugging & going a little further than that but not having sex. We ended it mutually realizing the possible consequences. Now, I have to see him at work & we literally work next to each other. We agreed to try to stay friends & we have succeeded in the sense that we still talk to each other,etc. HOWEVER, being a woman & based on a study I read about on affairs, once you are kissed you are emotionally attached to a guy. A guy doesn't get emotionally attached until he's had sex -- and doesn't even consider it an affair until he has sex. So, you can see that there are two totally different perspective in play here. The problem is going to happen when they end it & she realizes how emotionally attached she has gotten to him. Most likely she is having marital problems or this wouldn't even have happened. Most likely she is going to eventually get really angry at him. In my case, I feel like I fell in love with this guy & thankfully, both of us are very reasonable, caring people who don't want to cause any hurt to the other. So, even though I've cried more tears over this & seeing him is very difficult, I would never get him in trouble. However, I have had moments when I thought how EASILY I could have informed his girlfriend on facebook or done something else to bring him down. Just hope she isn't that kind of woman.
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