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In this day and age marriage is a waste of time. Everyone cheats on everyone and the only people who are getting married is for the money. All the other guys tell me the same thing - don't get married it is a waste of time. "If the girl really loves you then she won't care if you are married or not." Makes perfect sense to me.
I won't bother getting married. Single and ready to mingle forever!
whoaaaa, wait one silly moment here....
Not everyone cheats on everyone...and not everyone marries for money.
And just because all the other guys tell you the same thing, doesn't mean its true.
Answer me one question....
Lets say you are considering getting married. What are your reasons for doing so?
True and I'm gay. I just observe people's attitudes from my standpoint and I wonder how marriage can actually happen these days. Most women these days are too freakin aggressive and cold-hearted. I wonder if they had some sort of abusive awful childhood to make them so cold and uncaring.
It isn't their childhoods that make them that way. It's dating selfish men who use them to dump them. When you've had your heart broken several times, you have to harden it to protect it.
In this day and age marriage is a waste of time. Everyone cheats on everyone and the only people who are getting married is for the money. All the other guys tell me the same thing - don't get married it is a waste of time. "If the girl really loves you then she won't care if you are married or not." Makes perfect sense to me.
I won't bother getting married. Single and ready to mingle forever!
Last week I had a great weekend with a spicy 22yr old.
Last night a drop dead gorgeous lady I have known a few years asked me what I was doing later that evening and I ended up waking up with her in my arms.
Neither of these things would have happened if I was married or even still seriously dating my miserable girlfriend. She seems to be interested in what I can do for her, these other two seem only interested in what we can do for each other in the now. I prefer the short term can you make me happy tonighters!
You can't "stay single and mingle" forever especially as you get older.
The young, single women wouldn't mingle with you. There.
So, when the girls you're mingling right now, starts to realize that you're not marriage material will you live as a hermit?
Maybe your boys were really saying, "hey, we're losers because no woman can stay with us for long. Why don't you be one with us so we won't feel so bad?"
I heard the main reason people won't get married is because they fear rejection. Is that you? Even if you "mingle" you could still chance on being rejected.
Last week I had a great weekend with a spicy 22yr old.
Last night a drop dead gorgeous lady I have known a few years asked me what I was doing later that evening and I ended up waking up with her in my arms.
Neither of these things would have happened if I was married or even still seriously dating my miserable girlfriend. She seems to be interested in what I can do for her, these other two seem only interested in what we can do for each other in the now. I prefer the short term can you make me happy tonighters!
My wife did have a rough upbringing, i admit, i did everthing for this woman, everything!!!!, right now shes acting like a total different person, i dont know her anymore, we used to be bestfriends, im really really bumming, WERE going to take time apart, hoping itll improve out current situation. Who knows.....
Perhaps you keep ending up with abusive jerks because that is what feels familiar to you. Maybe you could consider exploring this with a good therapist so that you can learn to make better choices in men? There ARE good ones out there
I know, but what do they act like? Seriously, I need to know. Are they all sex crazed and mean?
And therefore you should be hostile and cold-hearted to all men? Hello...am I missing out on something. Sounds like irrational and childish anger displacement to me.
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Originally Posted by CESpeed
It isn't their childhoods that make them that way. It's dating selfish men who use them to dump them. When you've had your heart broken several times, you have to harden it to protect it.
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