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Well, I put something out there once...for people who had kids and were looking for a relationship.
I asked, "How do you handle discipline...as far as your new partner goes?" A lot of people said, "My kid, my responsibility." That just frees the kid to walk all over the non-disciplining parent. It creates a problem. Along the same lines is: if there's a dispute, are you going to believe your kid or your partner? It's a "wedge"...not worth it.