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Old 10-30-2008, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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Originally Posted by sms0511 View Post
Question to ALL (yes, men and women):

Let's say that your loved one is one hell of a great person. Treats you well, loyal, attentive, bedroom-side very attractive, etc. etc.

Is there any other matter about the other person that could be a deal breaker in your relationship?

I'll start. No matter how good of a guy the guy is, I could NOT stand being in a relationship with a lazy, nonambitious guy. Therefore, I could never date an inheritance baby (who prefers to live off of the inheritance w/ no job, etc.), nor could I be with someone that wants to be a potential "househusband" (sorry guys!)
Not everyone with an inheritance, though, is a lazy bum who lives off his parents' success. There are quite a few people who use that money to attain higher levels of education or reach higher...

I have a lot of dealbreakers, I would say her being religious is a dealbreaker. At least, if she's more than just a little bit religious, dealbreaker. If she wants kids, I'll date her, but that's a dealbreaker as far as the relationship lasting long. If she's really liberal, that's a dealbreaker.
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:03 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Meh, I usually get a "vibe" when Im compatible with someone. If that vibe isnt there, I don't bother, and as as result didnt date much in high school. lol

Deal Breakers are:
Clingy
Mama's Boys
Controlling
Cheating ( Not advisable if you want to stay healthy)
Games. I dont play 'em and if he starts to, buh-bye.
And, my shallow one, hairy. I will not date an overly-hairy man. Im talking has it on his back and everywhere else. Id be too busy thinking of ways to shave it off.
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:06 PM
 
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Originally Posted by sms0511 View Post
Question to ALL (yes, men and women):

Let's say that your loved one is one hell of a great person. Treats you well, loyal, attentive, bedroom-side very attractive, etc. etc.

Is there any other matter about the other person that could be a deal breaker in your relationship?

I'll start. No matter how good of a guy the guy is, I could NOT stand being in a relationship with a lazy, nonambitious guy. Therefore, I could never date an inheritance baby (who prefers to live off of the inheritance w/ no job, etc.), nor could I be with someone that wants to be a potential "househusband" (sorry guys!)
I swear I just saw a thread already on this same question a few days ago.

Lots of deal-breakers for me.
Smoking
drug use
excessive alcohol
has dogs in the house
I could go on...and on...
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:22 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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I swear I just saw a thread already on this same question a few days ago.

Lots of deal-breakers for me.
Smoking
drug use
excessive alcohol
has dogs in the house
I could go on...and on...
Why no dogs?
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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1. Does Drugs
2. Alcoholic
3. Likes to beat up women or kids
4. Is a thief
5. Hates kids
6. Likes molesting kids or raping woman
7. Hates Animals or when driving, sees an animal up ahead, and purposely tries to hit it
8. Lives with mom and dad and he's 45
9. He's already married
10. Doesn't want sex often
11. Doesn't like to eat at the Y
12. Has a Star Trek costume in his closet
13. Is Gay
14. Isn't monogamous
15. Wears my lingerie when I'm not around
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:24 PM
 
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1. Does Drugs
2. Alcoholic
3. Likes to beat up women or kids
4. Is a thief
5. Hates kids
6. Likes molesting kids or raping woman
7. Hates Animals or when driving, sees an animal up ahead, and purposely tries to hit it
8. Lives with mom and dad and he's 45
9. He's already married
10. Doesn't want sex often
11. Doesn't like to eat at the Y
12. Has a Star Trek costume in his closet
13. Is Gay
14. Isn't monogamous
15. Wears my lingerie when I'm not around

Boy, you're sort of picky...
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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LOL, I thought 10 and 11 were funny, I'm the same way as a guy just reverse 11. I have dated enough girls like that.
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:34 PM
 
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Why no dogs?
Thought that was pretty clear from my answer. I would not live in a house with dogs inside.
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:36 PM
 
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OK....next question.....
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Old 10-30-2008, 09:37 PM
 
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15. Wears my lingerie when I'm not around
If thats spoken from expierence, there must be a juicy store behind that one.
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