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Honestly? If I were in your shoes I'd go talk to a professional....possibly try meds.....I would explain to him the situation and that I needed space and if he couldn't give that to me I wouldn't have him come back.....however, if he agrees to your space terms and supports you I think you absolutely should have him come back......see if the counseling helps but you HAVE to try too....pick something you like to do and make plans to do it together.....couples massages maybe a day at the spa??? do something together to spark that flame again.....
Dang it Lola!! I left the other thread cause it was getting too hot in there for me and now you are starting it in here too.
Sierra, again I say, anyone feeling like they are high in any way on antidepressants is not taking the right medication. All you should feel when you are taking the right one for your body is "better".
I'm not planning on trying any kind myself. I'd rather be my natural grumpy self than a Stepford-wife all-fake-smiles druggie. A coworker of mine who's big on this crap says only one or two of her soccer-mom group of friends are not on drugs and they're the "miserable" ones... I know for a fact my coworker is plenty miserable herself and taking a handful of pills every day is the only way she's able to stay married.
Okay, I see the problem... you aren't basing this on YOUR personal experience. Anyone taking a "handful of pills every day" who is still miserable and suffering is misusing the medication, plain and simple. When used properly in the right dosage, antidepressants are EXTREMELY effective, once you find the right one for your body type and your problems. They do not make you high, goofy, or drugged out feeling. You should suggest to your coworker that she needs to be evaluated by her doctor pronto, something is not right.
Sierra, again I say, anyone feeling like they are high in any way on antidepressants is not taking the right medication. All you should feel when you are taking the right one for your body is "better".
I'm not saying they feel high, LM. They feel "better" and "happy," but in reality they're NOT either "better" or "happy." They've just swept their very much alive and well problems under the rug so that they don't have to do anything in order to truly solve them.
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I know for a fact my coworker is plenty miserable herself and taking a handful of pills every day is the only way she's able to stay married.
