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Ok, most of you know my history by now so not hashing it out again.
I have been back to dating for about 5-6weeks and while I am getting dates, some of excellent quality...it takes a while to cultivate those relationships. (Expecially because with on-line dating the first date or two is blind and they are REALLY cautious.)
I was involuntarily celibate during the last part of my marriage due to her illness and then was just off the market all together for a while after that ended. Total of about 2 years of no "fun" for me and it's starting to bug me.
Basically, I have a decent moral code but I find myself thinking about picking up someone for casual sex. (Yeah, I'd wrap it up...that's a given) Problem is I haven't really done this before...maybe just venting about it is the answer. I also have a gal I dated that would probably be good to go if I spent another date or two with her but that would be my only interest as we are not a LT fit at all. Hmmm....I will probably drop her a note.
Ok, most of you know my history by now so not hashing it out again.
I have been back to dating for about 5-6weeks and while I am getting dates, some of excellent quality...it takes a while to cultivate those relationships. (Expecially because with on-line dating the first date or two is blind and they are REALLY cautious.)
I was involuntarily celibate during the last part of my marriage due to her illness and then was just off the market all together for a while after that ended. Total of about 2 years of no "fun" for me and it's starting to bug me.
Basically, I have a decent moral code but I find myself thinking about picking up someone for casual sex. (Yeah, I'd wrap it up...that's a given) Problem is I haven't really done this before...maybe just venting about it is the answer. I also have a gal I dated that would probably be good to go if I spent another date or two with her but that would be my only interest as we are not a LT fit at all. Hmmm....I will probably drop her a note.
I got the perfect faith in that whatever you decide will be the right choice.
Man, math guy, you've really disappointed me. Casual sex is for losers man. You can do much better with your life.
It's a temporary thing, just something I'm toying with...besides, with your rash of posts lately I honestly don't know when you are being serious or not.
I'm being serious with you. I hate casual sex. It is the ultimate of greed and vanity imo (besides being a pervert). It is worse than seeing 400 pound people at an all you can eat buffet stuffing greasy food down their throats....
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Originally Posted by Mathguy
It's a temporary thing, just something I'm toying with...besides, with your rash of posts lately I honestly don't know when you are being serious or not.
Ok, most of you know my history by now so not hashing it out again.
I have been back to dating for about 5-6weeks and while I am getting dates, some of excellent quality...it takes a while to cultivate those relationships. (Expecially because with on-line dating the first date or two is blind and they are REALLY cautious.)
I was involuntarily celibate during the last part of my marriage due to her illness and then was just off the market all together for a while after that ended. Total of about 2 years of no "fun" for me and it's starting to bug me.
Basically, I have a decent moral code but I find myself thinking about picking up someone for casual sex. (Yeah, I'd wrap it up...that's a given) Problem is I haven't really done this before...maybe just venting about it is the answer. I also have a gal I dated that would probably be good to go if I spent another date or two with her but that would be my only interest as we are not a LT fit at all. Hmmm....I will probably drop her a note.
Oh geez.....magazines, tv, movies, cyber sex (and no that wasn't an offer ).....anything but that.....it will make you feel trashy and she'd probably be trashy
Yes. Trashy plus the guilt and shame that lingers for a while. lol....great feelings huh!!!
good post lola....glad somebody agrees with me...
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Originally Posted by lola8822
Oh geez.....magazines, tv, movies, cyber sex (and no that wasn't an offer ).....anything but that.....it will make you feel trashy and she'd probably be trashy
I'm being serious with you. I hate casual sex. It is the ultimate of greed and vanity imo (besides being a pervert). It is worse than seeing 400 pound people at an all you can eat buffet stuffing greasy food down their throats....
I've been having a tough time lately with loneliness. Is it too much to ask that I find someone that could also use some general affection? I'm not hurting anyone, can't get anyone pregnant or diseased...not making anyone promises of love...it still goes against a lot of core things in me but I have needs.
I've been having a tough time lately with loneliness. Is it too much to ask that I find someone that could also use some general affection? I'm not hurting anyone, can't get anyone pregnant or diseased...not making anyone promises of love...it still goes against a lot of core things in me but I have needs.
Vanity it is not.
(((((hugs))))))
alrighty...your all set
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.....magazines, tv, movies, cyber sex (and no that wasn't an offer 
).....anything but that.....it will make you feel trashy and she'd probably be trashy 
