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Old 11-13-2008, 11:22 AM
 
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My last boyfriend spent the night from time to time at my place, or vice versa. Sometimes when we got back so late from a gig or a concert, we would be too tired to drive anywhere else so either he could stay at mine or he'd have me stay at his.
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Old 11-13-2008, 11:24 AM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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That sounds reasonable and logical.

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My last boyfriend spent the night from time to time at my place, or vice versa. Sometimes when we got back so late from a gig or a concert, we would be too tired to drive anywhere else so either he could stay at mine or he'd have me stay at his.
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Old 11-13-2008, 12:04 PM
 
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We stay over more nights than not. He dosent like to sleep alone.
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Old 11-13-2008, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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We stay over more nights than not. He dosent like to sleep alone.
I'm curious how women handle it. Does he stay at your place more often? What do you do in the morning when you stay at his place? It's so inconvenient. Do you keep clothes and other stuff at his place or do you go back to yours first? I don't know where you live, but in big spread-out cities this is just not feasible...
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Old 11-13-2008, 05:09 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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I never found it inconvenient. With my last long-term boyfriend, when his house was clean enough I'd spend a weekend night out there on a regular basis. I kept a toothbrush there, nothing else really. I have no problem wearing something two days in a row. When I got ready to go home, I did.

And the same with him. On a regular basis he'd spend the night or the weekend at my place. He might have an extra shirt or pair of pants here. We'd cook dinner, watch movies, drink wine, and relax..

Honestly it's my favorite way to "date".
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Old 11-13-2008, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Arizona, The American Southwest
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How often does he/she/you spend the night?
I don't think questions of that nature should be asked on a public forum, and I'm not sure what good it'll do for anybody to know how often other posters "spend the night" together. Things like that are personal and should be kept that way, and I'm not interested in knowing how other posters spend their nights, or with who.

I know it's up to other posters to either answer this question or not, and I'm just expressing my opinion regarding the nature of questions like this.
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:29 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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I don't think questions of that nature should be asked on a public forum, and I'm not sure what good it'll do for anybody to know how often other posters "spend the night" together. Things like that are personal and should be kept that way, and I'm not interested in knowing how other posters spend their nights, or with who.

I know it's up to other posters to either answer this question or not, and I'm just expressing my opinion regarding the nature of questions like this.
Umm, did you just pick this one at random? Have you been run out of OT for bad behavior? If you want real naughty threads, you could find worse ones here.
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I never found it inconvenient. With my last long-term boyfriend, when his house was clean enough I'd spend a weekend night out there on a regular basis. I kept a toothbrush there, nothing else really. I have no problem wearing something two days in a row. When I got ready to go home, I did.

And the same with him. On a regular basis he'd spend the night or the weekend at my place. He might have an extra shirt or pair of pants here. We'd cook dinner, watch movies, drink wine, and relax..

Honestly it's my favorite way to "date".
Oh, weekends are fine. It's the school nights I can't quite relate to and find inconvenient. If I show up at work wearing the same clothes I wore the day before I might as well write on my forehead "hey, I got lucky last night!"
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:39 PM
 
Location: South
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I have never really been big into the sleepovers but it seems men are. In my last two relationships I often got scolded/questioned over why I didn't do it more often. I just like my space and yeah it can be inconvenient... I'm a woman and I need things in the morning to make myself presentable.
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Livingston, Montana
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after we had sex for the first time we were ALWAYS together, either at my place or his.. a month later we moved in together.
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