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As a woman, I wil tell you it would be nice to meet a man who is a virgin because that would tell me he is interested in more than sex. But I would save it for the appropriate time, like when the two of you are discussing potentially having a physical relationship or past relationships. Wait until you are throughly comfortable with the person. Trust your instincts.
If you don't make a big deal about it then she's less likely to make a big deal. Don't act like you've got something major to confess, after a month she might even already have an inkling. I would say mentioning you are a virgin is okay but maybe leave out the never kissed a girl etc. Because after a month I would assume you would have kissed her or be really close.
Don't stress over it because if you make it a big deal then it's way more likely to be a big deal. Best of luck!
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As a born and bred Jersey girl, I take offense at your comment that we're not the most intellectual creatures on earth. I could flip that around and say the men in Jersey are all little boys looking for a sugar mama to take care of them, but that wouldn't be fair, either. Please don't lump us all together.
as a born and bred jersey girl, i take offense at your comment that we're not the most intellectual creatures on earth. I could flip that around and say the men in jersey are all little boys looking for a sugar mama to take care of them, but that wouldn't be fair, either. Please don't lump us all together.
I wouldn't say women would be scared off; but a lot of them would be turned off or just not interested. Really, if you haven't had experience by 27...they're going to wonder what's wrong with you.
That is what I would be thinking.
Or you are some ultra religious person!
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Originally Posted by rose125
If you don't make a big deal about it then she's less likely to make a big deal. Don't act like you've got something major to confess,
Don't stress over it because if you make it a big deal then it's way more likely to be a big deal. Best of luck!
I agree.
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Originally Posted by jersgrl1969
As a born and bred Jersey girl, I take offense at your comment that we're not the most intellectual creatures on earth. I could flip that around and say the men in Jersey are all little boys looking for a sugar mama to take care of them, but that wouldn't be fair, either. Please don't lump us all together.
Yeah, if you cannot find a girl because you are in New Jersey, I think there is more to the story.
Aren't you the one who doesn't believe in lying to kids about Santa Clause?
That would turn me off more than your not having kissed a girl yet. Seriously.
Well the great thing about us Jersey Girls are that we're all so different. Yes, I've met some airheads, but there are more of us that are intellegent. There's such a great mix of girls in Jersey like no where else I've seen. You have wild girls, conservative girls, little town girls, big city girls, girls from every background, nationality, race, creed, religion, ets... Wow! You have an abundant pool to choose from. Perhaps, its the company you keep that steers you towards the undesireables. In that case, moving is not going to help you. You'll attract that crowd if that's who you feel comfortable hanging with.
Break free from those crowds and try to mingle around different circles. You'll find what you're looking for in Jersey.
Also, if you're trying to have a relationship, what girl wouldn't be flattered to find out that you've been holding out for that special one and you think she's it? Take your time, date without divulging any personal info, and when that one comes along, you'll know what to say and do.
I seem to be in the minority. To know I was his first one! I'd love it! The things one could teach him! As for experience.... I know men who have been with many women and are terrible in the sack.
I seem to be in the minority. To know I was his first one! I'd love it! The things one could teach him! As for experience.... I know men who have been with many women and are terrible in the sack.
I'm with you... it would make me feel very special if I were in my twenties though.
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