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pitt_transplant · 01-07-2009, 01:16 PM

But it is confusing to me that there are some guys that seem to like to take care of women and other men that just loathe it. What is the determining factor? The guy or the gal? Whats your take?

Mr.Cat · 01-07-2009, 01:21 PM

Take care as of letting her sit on her a$$ and support her?

Magnum Mike · 01-07-2009, 01:25 PM

Taking care of a woman... that could be defined in many ways. For me, I've always been a good provider, even though I've never been married, and I've always been there for the woman I love, not only when the need arises, but just by letting her know that I love her by telling her so, or giving her little gifts she likes, like chocolate or flowers, and not just on occasions like her birthday, but on any day.

Degenerate · 01-07-2009, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Magnum Mike

Taking care of a woman... that could be defined in many ways. For me, I've always been a good provider, even though I've never been married, and I've always been there for the woman I love, not only when the need arises, but just by letting her know that I love her by telling her so, or giving her little gifts she likes, like chocolate or flowers, and not just on occasions like her birthday, but on any day.

Now you're a guy that I think most women would like to be with because you're thoughtful

sportsfangal · 01-07-2009, 01:28 PM

do you have a brother????

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Originally Posted by Magnum Mike

Taking care of a woman... that could be defined in many ways. For me, I've always been a good provider, even though I've never been married, and I've always been there for the woman I love, not only when the need arises, but just by letting her know that I love her by telling her so, or giving her little gifts she likes, like chocolate or flowers, and not just on occasions like her birthday, but on any day.

pitt_transplant · 01-07-2009, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat

Take care as of letting her sit on her a$$ and support her?

Just support financially or taking care of problems...

What she does I guess would be where you post in acceptable details.

Like one of the things I found funny is my rich ex's wouldnt let me clean. They would call the housekeeper.

I like to clean and thought it was funny they thought " I didnt need to do that"
"Who the f am i that i cant use some windex?" Is what I thought.

sierraAZ · 01-07-2009, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Magnum Mike

I've always been a good provider, even though I've never been married

What a waste of a good provider!

Oildog · 01-07-2009, 02:37 PM

I can provide quite well, but I won't consider it unless I see they can provide for themselves.

Beena · 01-07-2009, 02:37 PM

Men run pretty shallow. If she is the hottest thing that ever gave him the time of day...yes he will kixx her axx.

MarqueseGilmore · 01-07-2009, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Magnum Mike

Taking care of a woman... that could be defined in many ways. For me, I've always been a good provider, even though I've never been married, and I've always been there for the woman I love, not only when the need arises, but just by letting her know that I love her by telling her so, or giving her little gifts she likes, like chocolate or flowers, and not just on occasions like her birthday, but on any day.

I'm sorta the sameway but for women I love not for someone I'm just dating. And I've never been married either. It depends on the feelings I have. I like to spoil the one I love.