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Old 03-11-2009, 09:48 PM
 
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In my short life, no. I've never been sexually aroused by anything at all that didn't involve a woman. Have I thought about what it would be like to be in a relationship with another male? Absolutely. And I'm not so sure I couldn't see myself with a guy who was like me, clean cut, fit, attractive, smart, sensitive, tasteful, etc. If anything it gives me a better perspective on how I ought to present myself to girls that I'm attracted to to ponder what kind of guy I'd hypothetically be attracted to. And I'd be even pickier about guys I date than girls I date, so it frankly gives me insight into why girls can obsess over certain minutiae.

I'm not bisexual though, because as far as sex goes it isn't really possible for me to be aroused at the thought of sex with another man, or at the very least I've never observed it. So an actual relationship with another dude wouldn't be possible. Companionship, probably, but a functional relationship, no.

It is kind of amusing thought to read the violently negative responses on the subject by other males. I mean, if I weren't attracted to other males in any way, the most I'd give would be a passive "No thank You". I wonder what drives the zeal of these denials...
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Old 03-12-2009, 01:32 AM
 
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I feel so sorry for you. Look on the bright side of life
lmfao.

That's exactly what i did when i thought i was gay, i balled for an hour. It wasn't anything more then something i didn't agree was me. I was a f'ed up kid and turning gay is not an escape from the nightmare.
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Old 03-14-2009, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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In my short life, no. I've never been sexually aroused by anything at all that didn't involve a woman. Have I thought about what it would be like to be in a relationship with another male? Absolutely. And I'm not so sure I couldn't see myself with a guy who was like me, clean cut, fit, attractive, smart, sensitive, tasteful, etc. If anything it gives me a better perspective on how I ought to present myself to girls that I'm attracted to to ponder what kind of guy I'd hypothetically be attracted to. And I'd be even pickier about guys I date than girls I date, so it frankly gives me insight into why girls can obsess over certain minutiae.

I'm not bisexual though, because as far as sex goes it isn't really possible for me to be aroused at the thought of sex with another man, or at the very least I've never observed it. So an actual relationship with another dude wouldn't be possible. Companionship, probably, but a functional relationship, no.

It is kind of amusing thought to read the violently negative responses on the subject by other males. I mean, if I weren't attracted to other males in any way, the most I'd give would be a passive "No thank You". I wonder what drives the zeal of these denials...
You have to keep in mind that right now in western society, it is not a stab at a woman's feminity if she engages in sex with a woman but a man's masculinity is questioned if he has sex with another male.

No one is "100%" as far as sexuality goes but everyone has a preference. Some people go outside of their normal patterns.

Therefore if the biological possibility exists, how can anyone be totally 100 percent? Even if you have never thought about it, every straight person has the choice and the biological capability to engage in homosexual sex, most choose not to.

The average straight person probably at average has a 3 to 5 percent attraction to the same sex which is so small to even feel anything to the same sex. You have the few who have a 15-30 percent attraction to the same sex.

In societies in the ancient world and even some in today's times, male homosexuality was viewed as something that made men stronger warriors and thus was not questioned about his masculinity.
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