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Old 04-23-2009, 03:42 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Is it because they had a really messed up relationship with one and she's now anti-men? Or is it is just in their nature to hate on us? Is it a mental issue? Why Dios Mío, why do they hate on us?
I've never known a woman who really hates men. I have one friend who occasionally says it, but it's her inept way of expressing her disappointment with her previous or current boyfriend.

One of the things I like about men is that they can be very low maintenance- unless there's some serious unresolved sexual tension going on. I also don't think I can be a lover to a woman, but more power to those who are

 
Old 04-23-2009, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I'd say it's more frustration than hate and the fact that you're even asking this question proves there's a valid reason for our frustration--you don't listen! If you did, you wouldn't be asking this.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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Is it because they had a really messed up relationship with one and she's now anti-men? Or is it is just in their nature to hate on us? Is it a mental issue? Why Dios Mío, why do they hate on us?
Well, the women I know who do this do it because they're sick of society and family telling them they need a man. They don't want one but that decision is not respected. So they talk down the thing that society/family says they need that they just plain do not want. What they really want is for others to leave them alone about their decision to never marry.

Women who date and do this, I don't get.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 05:11 PM
 
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I love men...they are great to work with and make wonderful friends. They are not catty, are straightforward, simple, no drama, etc.

However, when it comes to a relationship it gets a little complicated. However, right now I am dealing with a lot of cattiness so I am currently anti-women.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 05:15 PM
 
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I know catty men and a lot of them are straight masculine dudes. Ever heard of hazing and or discrimination? Ya ok....I rest my case

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I love men...they are great to work with and make wonderful friends. They are not catty, are straightforward, simple, no drama, etc.

However, when it comes to a relationship it gets a little complicated. However, right now I am dealing with a lot of cattiness so I am currently anti-women.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 10:45 PM
 
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I saw a lot of that in college. I think many women were sexually molested by men and or had violent relationships with a male figure in their lives.
Points for artsyguy. Later in life, we figure that out.

I was too naive in college to figure that out, but within 5 years, it was apparent that something in their relationships with their daddies went south (literally)...or with a guy that mistreated them. But they, aren't they with the guy that mistreated them because it's just like daddy was?
 
Old 04-23-2009, 11:32 PM
 
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Same reason some men hate on women, I'd suggest.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 11:38 PM
 
Location: In a house on a street in Puyallup, WA
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Same reason some men hate on women, I'd suggest.
YES I SAY MOONSHADOW GOT THE RIGHT ANSWER WE HATE EACH OTHER AT SOME POINT.
 
Old 04-23-2009, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Is it because they had a really messed up relationship with one and she's now anti-men? Or is it is just in their nature to hate on us? Is it a mental issue? Why Dios Mío, why do they hate on us?
What do YOU care?! Most of them like cats!
 
Old 04-23-2009, 11:46 PM
 
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YES I SAY MOONSHADOW GOT THE RIGHT ANSWER WE HATE EACH OTHER AT SOME POINT.
Human nature I expect. People do crappy things to each other. (by the way I went to the Fair in your town last year. )

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What do YOU care?! Most of them like cats!
NOT ME!
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