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Did I not tell you what to do? Like an idiot you COMPLETELY ignored me. Most of the other posters are female and have absolutely no experience in dating women. That is what happens when you take women's advice on dating: you get stepped on and pushed to the side. Women live in a fantasy land and men live in reality. Just the way it is.
My advice was to find something unique about the person and talk about that. Just ask them questions, women LOVE to talk about themselves. If you just get them talking about themselves it will work good for you. After 5 minutes of blabbing tell them you have to go and give them your contact information. TELL them to call you or add you on myspace/facebook. When you leave tell them you are going to some place cool (like law class, the gym, etc.)
Once you've got second contact you need to start being more sexual with me. Use indirect sexual comments like how good their physical features look. You need to make it important to show that you have a sexual interest in them otherwise you'll get pushed to the friend zone. After that second contact you can gauge their views on sex and relationships. If they give any signs of being a prude, get out. If their emphasis is on having a good time and having fun that is a good sign.
Don't be too hard on yourself, just have fun with it. When you are having fun and enjoying yourself you will present yourself as being more confident. You'll mess up the first couple time but after a while you'll gain experience at it and it will be problem for you. I've chatted up hundreds of women and it is no problem for me anymore.
wrong wrong and wrong. That is way too generic. This is how you do it.
Hot chick walks into a room with a bag that has french designs on it (Eiffel tower etc.)
ME: Wow, that is a really cool paris bag you have. Where did you get it?
girl: My friend bought it for me when I was in french class.
Me: That is so cool I thought you went to paris or something, have you ever been to paris?
Girl: No, but I always wanted to go *girl starts blabbing*
*after 5 minutes of chat like the above*
Me: Hey, it was nice chatting with you. You seem like an interesting person. Call me some time *hand her a peice of paper with your number on it*. I have to go to the gym.
Wow..you are right on point Killer...I was just thinking about how men approach me, and what works and what doesn't, and, if they engage me, I'll start talking, although I don't like talking about myself, but it works. I hate the constant staring thing, I'm like, just say something hell! However, with the staring, or looking to long thing, I'll take over, and start a conversation, cuz from experience, they were looking for an "IN" ....lol...and -in- to conversation..had to clear that up..ice breaker, u know what I mean.
Are handsome men a pain in the butt shallower than a puddle (a generalization) or is everyone an individual? I don't see how you can have it both ways, unless of course you just like being bitter and angry at everyone, which is fine too.
Are handsome men a pain in the butt shallower than a puddle (a generalization) or is everyone an individual? I don't see how you can have it both ways, unless of course you just like being bitter and angry at everyone, which is fine too.
Well I was trying to encourage you with a story of someone else who felt similarly to what you expressed in your original post that I was responding to. But obviously that didn't work out quite as I expected. So I'll just apologize for any offense (absolutely NONE was intended in any way) and leave you be.
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