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That is a thing, I DO NOT control anyone. I am his fantasy. You can ask him yourself. Biology there is. Agreed. His fantasy came true. I can't help it.
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Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy
Right.
Well, hopefully he will cover his tracks well and you'll never have to accidentally uncover evidence of his porn viewing and divorce him, too.
I am just STUNNED that there are still grown women in this world who are this naive...
And this self absorbed and quite frankly, really immature.
Well, hopefully he will cover his tracks well and you'll never have to accidentally uncover evidence of his porn viewing and divorce him, too.
I am just STUNNED that there are still grown women in this world who are this naive...
He does not need to cover his tracks. He is not you. He won't f it up. I am not naive. I have a lot of experiences with men and know what most of them are about. I have selected the best. And I don't care what you think. Yes, there are better looking men and women out there. But you can be just into someone for what they are! Sadly, it is beyond your comprehension. So, i am not responding to your BS excuses, because you are miserable and feel like u need porn. So sorry.
If you want to ask him directly, you can have a man to man talk.
He does not need to cover his tracks. He is not you. He won't f it up. I am not naive. I have a lot of experiences with men and know what most of them are about. I have selected the best. And I don't care what you think. Yes, there are better looking men and women out there. But you can be just into someone for what they are! Sadly, it is beyond your comprehension. So, i am not responding to your BS excuses, because you are miserable and feel like u need porn. So sorry.
If you want to ask him directly, you can have a man to man talk.
And this self absorbed and quite frankly, really immature.
Hey Djuna-the-bradpitt, who ever is hiding behind a little computer screen,
You "think" that putting up with someone who mentally abuses you and do nothing about is immature? LOL You think it is OK to be a punching bag?
People that look at porn are immature with no sense of reality.
You must be a friend of my loser ex. lol I see a lot in common.
Whatever people. Whatever makes you all happy. Watch your porn all you want, have your women submit and hopefully it all works out for you. What ever makes you all feel better.
I didn't realize I would be attacked because I have it better than all of you do. Sorry to upset anyone. lol I am done with this thread.
Whoever posted this thread originally: my best wishes to you. Be strong and do not put up with anyone's c**p. Be it a man, a woman or a relative. Nobody has power over you other than you. Don't let anyone push you around. Rise above.
And for the rest of you, good luck. Enjoy your porn. My man and I will pass. There is such a thing as "No, thank you", some people are just too weak-minded to understand a standard and a true devotion. Porn is just too low for us.
But if porn something you choose, it is your thing. Do not speak on every man's behalf as your own lil bs excuse, as it is a biology... You are in control of your mind as a human, unless you are a f**ing primitive creature with no will power. I can see a huge cultural difference. I guess watching porn is a true american thing to do if you have not been outside of country lol. See, my man was in the air force; he has seen a lot of that promiscuous fantasy/hooker/porn crap all over. He told me tons of stories about what married men do on bases behind their wives and gf's backs and how weak they are.They blamed biology, screamed out it is a "man thing" lol Sorry, it is lame... My man laughed and never participated, came out STD free, unlike others. See, he is above that. He flew A-10 and kept his mind clear. He watched those loses crash 20 000 000 jets because of the party/hookers night before. He also has seen the world, he traveled and has seen all different kinds of women. He is not a sucker for porn! WHY? He is a devoted partner and a lover, a soul mate. None of you can even begin to understand that. Too deep for you... I get it.
So trying to win this porn battle is a nonsense. You decide for yourselves what you want to do with your lives, with your relationships. Call me naive and stupid etc... etc...What ever reflection of yourself you want to show me. You do not matter. I know myself better and I stand my ground. You don't like it, keep it to yourself. Speaking on my man's behalf was f**ing wrong. I am just THAT sure.
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No offense to women but some times you women believe the stupidest things.
You are his fantasy? What an 18 year old thing to say.
I bet he tells you he never looks at either women and that you DON'T look fat in these pants.
Dude, I am size 0.
The reason I am saying this is because he said so and he is not a BSer. We both see other attractive men and women everywhere we go, but we are way into each other to desire other people sexually, it does not cross our minds. If you think 38 y.o. man does not know what he wants by now, you got some growing up to do.
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He does not need to cover his tracks. He is not you. He won't f it up. I am not naive. I have a lot of experiences with men and know what most of them are about. I have selected the best. And I don't care what you think. Yes, there are better looking men and women out there. But you can be just into someone for what they are! Sadly, it is beyond your comprehension. So, i am not responding to your BS excuses, because you are miserable and feel like u need porn. So sorry.
If you want to ask him directly, you can have a man to man talk.
I have no reason to doubt you have a wonderful man. I just cannot understand why the fact he occasionally looks at porn--and he does, no matter what he tells you--trumps all of his other great qualities. Your willingness to throw away a committed long-term relationship, as you say you have done twice, over something as trivial as porn watching just astonishes me. But it is your life. Thanks for listening.
Not all men like porn. I know this is hard for some of you to fathom - but it's the truth. And, no, I'm not in denial. I've been with men that like porn and men that don't like porn. Different strokes (literally) for different folks.
Not all men like porn. I know this is hard for some of you to fathom - but it's the truth. And, no, I'm not in denial. I've been with men that like porn and men that don't like porn. Different strokes (literally) for different folks.
How do you know they don't watch it, at least once in a while? Because they told you?
How do you know they don't watch it, at least once in a while? Because they told you?
Why would you assume that you know the men I've been with better than I do?
I have no problem with porn. In fact - some of it I actually like. I just know that not every single man on this planet enjoys it. Why is that so hard to believe? Do you really think that every single man on this planet gets aroused in the same way? I find that beyond ridiculous.
I would never call off a relationship because of some porn watching. Proof being - I never have. However, some men are not into porn. Not a big deal - just a fact.
Not all men like porn. I know this is hard for some of you to fathom - but it's the truth. And, no, I'm not in denial. I've been with men that like porn and men that don't like porn. Different strokes (literally) for different folks.
I don't see anyone claiming all men like porn.
I specifically stated all men FANTASIZE.
Porn is just a method of fantasizing. Its not the only method...
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