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im 20, a petite girl, weighing in at just 112lbs and 5ft4. this is my natural size.
the thing is, i have small breasts. im not completely flat, im 34A so i do have something there even if it isn't alot. honestly, this never bothered me before, infact i never even thought about it until my boyfriend started mentioning it.
recently my boyfriend makes an effort to bring it up. he suggested i pad my bra, he said contraception pills would make them larger, he jokes about how i "could have implant surgery" etc when we're out he will randomly comment how whatever top or dress im wearing makes it look like i have "more up there" and when he sees a girl with a large chest he will mention it to me. And it's completely random, we're out in a club or something and he will just mention it out of nowhere and depress me for the night.
I'm feeling quite paranoid and self conscious about myself ever since to be honest. I dont like getting undressed around him because im self concious about my chest. I'm starting to look in the mirror alot and notice my size etc. I just feel like i'm not good enough for him now because it seems such a big deal to him.
When he says those things i feel like it's an indirect way of telling me that he hates my chest size and that hurts. He is self conscious about height and muscle but i dont say anything to hurt him, why would he keep doing this to me? i can't help what i was born with.
I guess he is taking out his anger on you? That's what it sounds like. I would be really annoyed and offended with his attitude.
If you still want to improve your appearance then I know guys do push ups to bulk up their pecs. Maybe you could try that to bulk up your chest? I'm not sure how that works on ladies though. It's only a suggestion.
tabula: Do you think that's what it could be? I feel like all guys will be thinking it about me
artsy: the thing is, i never cared before. it was never an issue until he started complaining. if i did something about it to change myself it would be for him and not myself.. in all honestly i was happy with my figure before he came along
Though most of us red-blooded males like a little up there to work with, for me anyway I don't like the look or the touch of fake ones. Don't do it would be my advice to you. And if your bf continues to make you feel "less" about yourself because of something not of your doing then he is to be replaced!
Aww don't feel too sad there are plenty of guys who like smaller sized ones.
If you were confident before then you can be sure that your BF is just dumping on you and it's really his issues that he feels bad about.
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Originally Posted by CarlyUK
Do you think that's what it could be? I feel like all guys will be thinking it about me
im 20, a petite girl, weighing in at just 112lbs and 5ft4. this is my natural size.
the thing is, i have small breasts. im not completely flat, im 34A so i do have something there even if it isn't alot. honestly, this never bothered me before, infact i never even thought about it until my boyfriend started mentioning it.
recently my boyfriend makes an effort to bring it up. he suggested i pad my bra, he said contraception pills would make them larger, he jokes about how i "could have implant surgery" etc when we're out he will randomly comment how whatever top or dress im wearing makes it look like i have "more up there" and when he sees a girl with a large chest he will mention it to me. And it's completely random, we're out in a club or something and he will just mention it out of nowhere and depress me for the night.
I'm feeling quite paranoid and self concious about myself ever since if im honest. I dont like getting undressed around him because im self concious about my chest. I'm starting to look in the mirror alot and notice my size etc. I just feel like i'm not good enough for him now because it seems such a big deal to him.
When he says those things i feel like it's an indirect way of telling me that he hates my chest size and that hurts. He is self concious about height and muscle but i dont say anything to hurt him, why would he keep doing this to me? i can't help what i was born with.
Honey if he sees only your breasts size and not the darling you are, kick the bum to the curb and find a man who will cherish the love in your heart. Every woman has a physically beauty that makes her special. Bigger breasts means nothing.
Why woulo a guy say that crap to his "girlfriend".
If he's into big breasts why wouldn't he just get a big breasted girl, instead of making the OP feel bad about herself?
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