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Old 06-10-2009, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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...if so, share your experiences.

If not, do you think you could ever see yourself fighting over a guy/girl? What would be a scenario that would make you feel like fighting over a guy/girl would be worth it.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:20 PM
 
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Yeah. Some drunk guy in a bar tried to grab my girlfriend's boobs. I shoved him away, and he came back at me. I took him down with two punches, then sat in a chair to pin him until the bouncers could throw him out. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't have time to think about it, because he outweighed me by a good 40 pounds. But he was so drunk that a six-year-old could have taken him.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:28 PM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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I have tried my best to outgrow that behavior however i am very territorial and do not invade my space or disrespect me.
I think everyone has a no return point where it is on..

On the flip side I think it would be foolish to even play with that fire anyway.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:40 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Never and never will.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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...if so, share your experiences.

If not, do you think you could ever see yourself fighting over a guy/girl? What would be a scenario that would make you feel like fighting over a guy/girl would be worth it.
Nope. Never have/never will. I wouldn't even want a man who would let me fight over him - unnecessary drama. My attitude has always been "why fight over something that's mine" and if it's not mine - then feel to take it with you when you leave. It annoys me though when I see two girls fighting over a guy - especially if you're not the one he wants. You're going to end up with a black eye, busted lip and no man. I did slap the hell out of a girl because I felt she disrespected me and my relationship but that's a loooong story
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Pinellas Park, FL
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yes, I was young and stupid. When I was 19 I stole my very very bests friends boyfriend and even though we ended up getting married/divorced - I never forgave myself for it. We are now kind of friends but it will never be the same.

Yeah nothing was every phyical..

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Old 06-10-2009, 01:46 PM
 
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No I would not fight over a guy but I would fight someone who flat out disrespected ME... for example she knows me and this guy are dating, living together or married - whatever- and she proceeds to come on to him and please dont let it be in front of me because now she going to have some problems... LOL
but lets say my man was cheating on me and I never met or saw this women before she owes me nothing why would I want to fight her.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:50 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Physically fought? No. I did get in a couple of yelling matches in high school.

I can't picture myself fighting a woman over my husband. He's a grown man. I don't really know how that would come about, anyway. Am I going to beat up a woman who's sleeping with my husband? I doubt it. Is this woman in my face and getting physical with me? Being all, "B**** I'm gonna take your man" or something? Does that happen? That would be really stupid. People don't pick fights with me.
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Old 06-10-2009, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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I almost did once. The tramp two-timed me and the other guy whose neck I was gonna break.
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Old 06-10-2009, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Grosse Ile Michigan
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Yes.

If you are referring to fighing over my girlfrind, then once. Her former boyfriend came to a party where I was not very coherent and beat the snot out of me. Long time ago. He did not win. It only cemented her decision to get away from him.

IN high school the captian of the football team lifted me off my feet and drew back his hand to eliminate my face (I was dating his ex). A very large and somewhat crazy friend of mine showed up just in time and caught his fist and pretty much sent him wimpering back to class (everyone was afraid of my friend).

A few other times, I have interevened on behalf of a woman who was being assaulted or threatened and ended up in a fight. I also ended up in a fihgt when my girl frind's sister responded sharply to a rude comment that someone made to her. Not sure how I ended up being the target, but he regretted it. I was seriously involved in martial arts then.
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