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Old 06-12-2009, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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It's actually quite simple. Women want to be with the guys who all the other women want to be with.
Yeah, but WHY?

Again, I think its that women in COMPETITION thing again. Has to be it.


Glad, I'm not one of those women...
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Yeah, but WHY?

Again, I think its that women in COMPETITION thing again. Has to be it.


Glad, I'm not one of those women...
That's exactly it. Competition.
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Old 06-12-2009, 02:32 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Please take some kick boxing lessons, or some self defense classes or something, and don't ever have me come on here and read how you got your ass kicked, again, by some broad who thought her man was looking at YOU. You better learn how to drop kick a b*tch.
LMAO!! I have to say, I would've snapped myself, shocked or not...I definitely would've drop kicked her!!! Self-defense, sister!!!

*Note to self: Sign up for kick-boxing again just in case..lol..
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Old 06-12-2009, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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...if so, share your experiences.

If not, do you think you could ever see yourself fighting over a guy/girl? What would be a scenario that would make you feel like fighting over a guy/girl would be worth it.
No and no. I'm not about to lower myself to street urchin status and lose my dignity over what - some man??? If somebody else wants him that bad, they can have him.
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Old 06-12-2009, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Geewiz! And what was wrong with that?!
I know - I'm thinkin' the same thing!
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Old 06-12-2009, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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It's actually quite simple. Women want to be with the guys who all the other women want to be with.
Um yeah .......... NO!
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Old 06-12-2009, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Grosse Ile Michigan
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It's actually quite simple. Women want to be with the guys who all the other women want to be with.
I figured this out in college. When I had a girl friend, it seemed like everyone was flriting with me all the time. Then we broke up. I was thinking "dating frenzy' Nope no dates, no interst. Finally I did a test. I made up a girl friend. Flirting, dates, like mad. Imaginary gal dumped me pretty soon no dates. I start dating Imaginary 2, flirting and dates returned. It was more complicated that what I am writing and more gradual, but the experiment clearly worked. I concluded that either women hate each other and are only happy when the feel they are taking a guy away from soemone else and making them miserable, or woemn see a guy as more worthwhile is somone else wants them.

So young guys, you need to have at lesat a pretend girl friend. Just be sure that you have a friend who will pose as Suzy Mystery if needed.

One close friend playing Suzy Mystery said at a party that we had better kiss to make it look real - Wow, turned out that it was not just pretend. We ended up dating for a year or so.
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Old 06-14-2009, 03:36 AM
 
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I guess I'm lucky or something. Right off the top of my head I can recall three separate occasions where I had to defend friends (girl) from an ex husdand, abusive boyfriend, stalker types. Once I had to have a "conversation" with my nieces ex boyfriend who wouldn't leave her alone after she dumed him.
All of these situations were pretty much the same. There really wasn't much of a fight. One guy I had to bounce off of a wall and pitch out the door. One guy I placed in a strangle hold and told him, "If you don't leave her alone, I will put you in the Hospital!"
I can understand the guy going off on some jackass grabbing his girlfriends boobs. oh yeah, big time!
but fighting for anything except to defend yourself or someone else from a real threat- that's just stupid!
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