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Old 11-10-2009, 10:50 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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I'd only take pity on her if she couldn't coordinate all the court ordered visitation to be on the same day of the week.

 
Old 11-10-2009, 02:36 PM
 
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Originally Posted by eastcoastgirl75 View Post
It seems to me that there is a LOT of stereotyping on this thread.

Just because a woman has multiple "baby daddies" DOES NOT automatically mean she is collecting welfare benefits! It also DOES NOT automatically mean that the babies were born out of wedlock!

Interesting blog from the perspective of a mother in the situation:
Multiple Kids and Multiple Fathers | Socyberty
Yes. But 99% of the women we're speaking of don't fit into that profile. Sorry.
 
Old 11-10-2009, 06:05 PM
 
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The problem with these women is that clearly drugs were usually involved. They had sex and didn't take their pill that day cause they were too drugged up, or were too desperate for drugs to ask the man to put on a condom . A man she probably didn't know but who provided the drugs in exchange for sex. Many women fall into that vicious cycle and end up populating half the planet.
 
Old 11-10-2009, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Just a question because I was called an ******* for not feeling sorry for a few women I know who have made poor choices and birth multiple kids by multiple men. Its always been a rule for me to not date women with kids and i cant see how having multiple children by multiple men was ever a good idea. Discuss.

Sorry? Please they don't even feel sorry for themselves why should we. They choose to have multiple men and have their children that's their problem. I feel sorry for none of them hoebags. If they kept their legs closed they wouldn't have so many kids by so many men......

Yuck nasty
 
Old 11-10-2009, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Kentucky
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I feel for the kids only.
 
Old 11-10-2009, 07:14 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Yes. But 99% of the women we're speaking of don't fit into that profile. Sorry.
Yes but I am trying to get people to realize you shouldn't make assumptions until you know the entire story.

I'm only saying this because I have 3 kids & I'm divorced. When people see me in public with my kids & no wedding ring, they automatically start making assumptions about me. It doesn't help that I look young for my age.

I'm a 100% self-supporting college professor for goodness sake! It is very frustrating to be judged based on appearance alone.
 
Old 11-10-2009, 07:15 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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The problem with these women is that clearly drugs were usually involved. They had sex and didn't take their pill that day cause they were too drugged up, or were too desperate for drugs to ask the man to put on a condom . A man she probably didn't know but who provided the drugs in exchange for sex. Many women fall into that vicious cycle and end up populating half the planet.
Are you SERIOUS?

I think you won the award for the most ignorant asinine post on this thread!!!!!

OMG!
 
Old 11-10-2009, 07:18 PM
 
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Are you SERIOUS?

I think you won the award for the most ignorant asinine post on this thread!!!!!

OMG!

Just because people judge you based on looks does not make my post less truthful. But thanks for the extra sensitivity you feel like you can throw on me. Get a life .
 
Old 11-10-2009, 08:01 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Just because people judge you based on looks does not make my post less truthful. But thanks for the extra sensitivity you feel like you can throw on me. Get a life .
Your post is not truthful at all. I know plenty of women with kids by multiple dads that do not do drugs. And by the way, I already have a life - I'm not the one on city-date making almost 3,000 posts in less than a year.

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Old 11-10-2009, 08:08 PM
 
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Your post is not truthful at all. I know plenty of women with kids by multiple dads that do not do drugs.

My post is truthful since I know plenty who do drugs and have multiple kids with different dads. They are not my friends, but I do know them. And I think that since I am not being politically correct, by telling everyone what really goes through some people's minds when a woman has multiple children with different fathers, there are those who will be offended by my post. But read this entire thread, and you'll see that there is a big dislike for these type of women. And many posters already know that what I say is true.
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