DOUBLE STANDARDS in male/female relationships (girl, divorce, couple, casual)
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It will always be this way I believe. Because women are meant to be the "mothers" The one one who will carry and child (or suppossed to) and its not exactly seen as nice if a woman has multiple sex partners she doesnt seem as appealing to a man who may potentially want her to be the mother of his children..and remember where the baby comes out!
Why is it during 3-somes with a man and 2 women, its called just that...'a 3-some'...but when its a woman and 2 men, its called a GANG BANG or stated how a 'train' was ran on the female?
Bad example. The first is three people getting together for consensual sex and the second is usually a group of men taking advantage of a drunk female. The first nearly always involves 2 women to a man but there is the odd exception. (see below) Then there was the incident where 4 women escaped from prison and 'gang banged" the first guy they encountered.
But this has raised an unrelated question in my mind.
Joe, the floor pot dealer always had a lot of eager young things following him home. One night, one said to Mike, his room-mate, put your beds together. She lay in the middle and said "how do I chose who goes first?" They agreed to pick a number between 1 and ten. Mike picked 2 and Joe became a residence stoner legend, when he picked one and went 2nd.
The reason that promiscuous men are not looked down upon like promiscuous women is that you have to remember that a woman who has multiple male partners is in the situation of not knowing who the father is, if a pregnancy occurs. Men do not have to worry about that, because we cannot have babies. Not knowing who the father of a baby is has had negative connotations for many centuries, nothing new.
And also if a number of men release their seed into one women, their sperm compete with one another as far as which sperm will be the one to fertilize a woman's egg. Once again, men do not have to worry about that.
When a man and woman go out on a date, the woman usually always EXPECTS the man to treat, but if the man EXPECTS the woman to treat, pay half, or go dutch, the man is considered a loser, cheap or just flat out BROKE...........
i think this has changed a lot in recent years thank God. but a woman that dated a black man was looked down upon by her peers but a male that had sex with a black woman was a "man" for splitting the black oak.
I guess mine is that the guy can be the ugly one. I am not even talking about hideous I am talking about someone who if he took better care of himself. He would be attractive enough to be with his respective partner. I fit that description of being kind of ugly because I am overweight, and hairy. Those two are not good things for the women I have been with. I kind of feel bad for having been with the women I have in the shape I am. But I do always apologize to the women for the way I am.....at least to the hookers
Bad example. The first is three people getting together for consensual sex and the second is usually a group of men taking advantage of a drunk female. The first nearly always involves 2 women to a man but there is the odd exception. (see below) Then there was the incident where 4 women escaped from prison and 'gang banged" the first guy they encountered.
But this has raised an unrelated question in my mind.
Joe, the floor pot dealer always had a lot of eager young things following him home. One night, one said to Mike, his room-mate, put your beds together. She lay in the middle and said "how do I chose who goes first?" They agreed to pick a number between 1 and ten. Mike picked 2 and Joe became a residence stoner legend, when he picked one and went 2nd.
While I have no first hand experience, I belive in a mff, the girls both share him, hence, there is no line, no waiting. Same with a mfm. Although I understand the OP question, but my understanding of a gang bang is more humiliating than pleasure driven....I could be wrong. I don't think of a mfm as a gang bang, I think more than 2 guys would be a gang bang, but who knows?? not I.
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