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Old 06-12-2009, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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...with an EX?

If so....who kept the tape/DVD?

If your EX is the one who has it, do you regret it? Do y
ou ever fear that it will come back and haunt you one day??
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Old 06-12-2009, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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No way! I don't take those kinds of chances - for anybody!!!
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Old 06-12-2009, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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No way! I don't take those kinds of chances - for anybody!!!
That goes for me too.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:06 PM
 
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Nope. No interest in doing so even without the risk factor.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Well, I have. "I" have the tape and he knows I have it and was fine with me having it. Don't know why I just won't destroy it, because that was many EONS ago. Like back in the late 90's. I think I've only watched it twice since then. Can't understand what's holding me back from destroying it.

There's an EX who taped me without my knowledge. Be careful ladies, because there are some SNEAKY ass men out here. He told me about it AFTER the fact. I threatened to sue him and he told me he would destroy it. I don't know if its been destroyed or not but for his sake, he better hope he did...
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Why would you even get involved with taping a sex act? What if someone broke into your home and stole it? There are so many things that could happen and it fall into the wrong hands. Personally, I wouldn't want my parents, my kids, my colleagues, judges, clients, friends, enemies or anybody to have something like this. It could destroy everything I've ever worked my whole life for. It's just not a smart move.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Why would you even get involved with taping a sex act? What if someone broke into your home and stole it? There are so many things that could happen and it fall into the wrong hands.
Being young, in love, and trustworthy of the person you're with. Or just being outright freaky, and want to watch it or have other people watch it with you for kicks.

There's many different factors as to why people do it. Its no different than people putting naked pics of themselves on the internet for the entire world wide web to view...... Now THAT, I never understood, but to each his own. I guess people have their reasons.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Being young, in love, and trustworthy of the person you're with. Or just being outright freaky, and want to watch it or have other people watch it with you for kicks.

There's many different factors as to why people do it. Its no different than people putting naked pics of themselves on the internet for the entire world wide web to view...... Now THAT, I never understood, but to each his own. I guess people have their reasons.
Exactly, and that's never gonna happen either. But if it's, as you say, no different...., why do you say you never understood it?
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Why would you even get involved with taping a sex act? What if someone broke into your home and stole it? There are so many things that could happen and it fall into the wrong hands. Personally, I wouldn't want my parents, my kids, my colleagues, judges, clients, friends, enemies or anybody to have something like this. It could destroy everything I've ever worked my whole life for. It's just not a smart move.
I'm guessing most people don't think about the consequences. Many are young, dumb and too trusting, not realizing how video and pics can come back to bite you later in life when you've matured and developed a career. Look at the Paris Hilton's and cheerleaders who, through the internet, will be remembered for a long time for what they did on video and phone pics.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Southeastern coast
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Being young, in love, and trustworthy of the person you're with. Or just being outright freaky, and want to watch it or have other people watch it with you for kicks.

There's many different factors as to why people do it. Its no different than people putting naked pics of themselves on the internet for the entire world wide web to view...... Now THAT, I never understood, but to each his own. I guess people have their reasons.
Reading this just reminded me of the lady who accidentally left her phone in Mcdonalds. She had nude pics of herself on the phone. She calls McD and asked the manager to "hold her phone" but it took her a while to go back and get it. Sure enough her pics were put on the Internet and she tried to sue McDonalds. I think she lost the suit.
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