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Unfortunately, after 30 years, and she doesn't even call it abuse, she is not giong to leave. And it is a very sad situation.
But if you think giving her a list of resources would help her, we would have to know what city she lives in. What people have available in Youngstown (where I grew up) and what people have here in Cleveland are very different, and that's only 60 miles.