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Old 08-28-2009, 07:06 AM
 
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Ok, there's a girl I like at work. Think she may like me.

How do I I actually tell her without directly telling her? I have no problem talking to her. I want to get this off my chest regardless whether she says yes or no. It's been eating at me the past month.
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Old 08-28-2009, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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Ok, there's a girl I like at work. Think she may like me.

How do I I actually tell her without directly telling her? I have no problem talking to her. I want to get this off my chest regardless whether she says yes or no. It's been eating at me the past month.
Awww... young love... LOL. Simple, walk up to her, introduce yourself (or you already have, remind her who you are) and shake her hand, say "hi, we should hang out sometime, whatdya think?" worse case scenario she says no and really, is it the end of the world?
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Old 08-28-2009, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Ask her if you can buy her lunch.
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Old 08-28-2009, 07:12 AM
 
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Tell her you can only afford coffee...
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Old 08-28-2009, 07:23 AM
 
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Well, we do work at the same job. She's 8 year's older than I am. How does dating a girl with kids work?
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Old 08-28-2009, 10:02 AM
 
Location: USA
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I suppose I am not in full understanding why you would want to date through work - and secondly, date a single Mom at work, who especially needs to work her job without friction and workplace complications to keep food on the table for those kids. You have a 50% chance of it becoming awkward and uncomfortable in the end if you were to pursue and date her. Is your desire for her more important than her kids needs?
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Old 08-28-2009, 10:14 AM
 
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Believe it or not, that has been in my head everyday Jeepgirl. That's one of the main reasons why I haven't asked her all this time - I don't want to come between her and her kids and I don't want her to try and sacrifice time just to date me while she provides for her kids and worl, which btw IS a stressful job.

I'm just so confused. And I don't want anything to affect my education either.
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