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Old 09-04-2009, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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I am horrible with names

I can remember when I met you, where, what were you wearing, what I was wearing, what we talked about, etc.... all those details. Next thing I see you I'll be like: "Hey, nice seen you again" while thinking: "Holy cow!!! what is her/his name?" and it is really bad when we are in a group of friends and I want to get your attention!!! or someone is making a remark about you and I am just nodding my head beacuse I do not know they are talking about you!!!

I fail
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Old 09-04-2009, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Clearwater, FL
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I am very bad at remember names. I have tried the whole restating their name when you meet them but they just never stick.
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Old 09-05-2009, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Never forget a face. Never forget a feeling.

Language is a newer part of the brain.
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Old 09-05-2009, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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I think I am great at remembering names.
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Old 09-06-2009, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I think I forget names and faces. I eat more nuts.
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Old 09-06-2009, 08:04 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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I am good with faces, but BAD with names.

I meet people at work all the time, and the next time I see them they'll come up to me like "Hey IZ", and I'm like, "uh heyyyy....."

I hate this and I want to do something about it. I started saying the person's name like 10 times in my head or under my breath, each time associating their face with the name. It seems to work.

Anybody else have this problem? How do you deal with it?
Yep its a big problem, I usually explain when I first meet them that I'm horrible with names, and I'm sorry in advance if I forget your name.
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Old 09-06-2009, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Omaha
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I think I forget names and faces. I eat more nuts.
I hear the "chin nuts" are the worst kind
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Old 09-08-2009, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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I have this problem as well. I'll meet someone and forget their name five minutes later. The easiest way for me is to say their name 3 times within the course of short a conversation. Saying it out loud helps to remember. "Hi Morticia nice to meet you." "Hey Morticia, that black dress looks nice on you, goes nice with your lipstick and nail polish" "Take care Morticia, nice meeting you"
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Old 09-15-2009, 08:40 PM
 
Location: North Pinellas
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I was always horrible at remembering peoples names... then I read that it helps to imagine yourself writing a their name on a sticky and putting it on their forehead... its actually been working, I also seem to snicker whenever I meet people
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Old 09-15-2009, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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You remember what you care about and forget what doesn't matter.
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