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I'd step away from the whole situation until they get off the pot all together.
oK...now Im thinking I should step away from this relationship right now. Although we did agree to the date this weekend, he told me he has to see how the week goes because things are "crazy" right now.
When I asked whats making it so crazy, he said things at home...
So now Im just thinking this X is just too much of a distraction. Looking back, every date we've had his X is either at the bar (twice) or being bought up in the conversation.
It doesnt even seem like he is truley available. Im too afraid that eventually its going to catch up and Im going to end up being the one getting hurt.
oK...now Im thinking I should step away from this relationship right now. Although we did agree to the date this weekend, he told me he has to see how the week goes because things are "crazy" right now.
When I asked whats making it so crazy, he said things at home...
So now Im just thinking this X is just too much of a distraction. Looking back, every date we've had his X is either at the bar (twice) or being bought up in the conversation.
It doesnt even seem like he is truley available. Im too afraid that eventually its going to catch up and Im going to end up being the one getting hurt.
How do I break it off with this guy?
Now you're thinking
To break it off just tell him you think he seems too "encumbered" and not really free to date, so you're going to pass on seeing him.
oK...now Im thinking I should step away from this relationship right now. Although we did agree to the date this weekend, he told me he has to see how the week goes because things are "crazy" right now.
When I asked whats making it so crazy, he said things at home...
So now Im just thinking this X is just too much of a distraction. Looking back, every date we've had his X is either at the bar (twice) or being bought up in the conversation.
It doesnt even seem like he is truley available. Im too afraid that eventually its going to catch up and Im going to end up being the one getting hurt.
To break it off just tell him you think he seems too "encumbered" and not really free to date, so you're going to pass on seeing him.
That sounds good, but Im trying to avoid sending him that through a text message. Unfortunently, like I said it just seems like he just wants to text instead of call me this week.
I try to avoid 'relationship talk' through text because things may come out wrong, I rather do it over the phone or in person.
That sounds good, but Im trying to avoid sending him that through a text message. Unfortunently, like I said it just seems like he just wants to text instead of call me this week.
I try to avoid 'relationship talk' through text because things may come out wrong, I rather do it over the phone or in person.
Then wait for him to call If he doesn't, then there is nothing for you to say to him anyway.
"dude...you live with your ex. Im done with that drama before I began..byes"
Do you really want to date someone that acts like that anyway? What he did to her he will do to you. To me it sounds like he is using you to distract himself and make the ex jealous. Sounds f-ing annoying.
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If he doesn't, then there is nothing for you to say to him anyway.
