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I would suggest you reach a compromise. For one thing, it's his body, and if he wants to masturbate you shouldn't really have a problem with it unless he's depriving you of sex. If he were to do this privately in the bathroom with nothing more than a mere fantasy in his head (no visual aids) would that be alright with you? Masturbation is a normal thing, and condemning him for it seems a bit harsh. He's not out screwing around, he's not engaging in some sordid cyber relationship with another woman, he's merely getting off to some porn. Is the porn something of a disturbing or illegal nature (beastiality, violent, kids etc)? If he was jacking off to a Playboy magazine in the bathroom would it bother you as much?
Don't automatically feel that just because you are left out of the process that he is choosing something or someone else over you. Ask him how important this is to him that he continue to sneak off to rub one off. Ask him if he's not getting enough from you. Do you two have a healthy sex life? Maybe he needs more, or perhaps he just enjoys the fantasy or voyeuristic aspect of the porn. You offered to let him do it in your presence or let you in on it, perhaps he's too shy? Try watching it with him some time and see where it goes.
I will agree that he is wrong for breaking his word. For that you need to have a serious discussion, regardless of what the reason, open and honest communication is very important. Let him know that he violated your trust, and that if just came clean about it and expressed his true desires or temptations you'd be able to work through this with him.
I don't know how the rest of you handle your relationships and or how frequent you have a need to be met but sometimes you may be too tired to really get into it, sometimes you may just need a fantasy break from the normal even though you love her and are turned on by her.
Sometimes you love her and lust for her but there are some things or something she won't do so you fill your need with a personal break. I don't know about you all but my whole life I have needed at least a quicky alone or not everyday.
I meant other women having sex with guys or girls or with themselves. In general...not necessarily girl on girl action.
I know what you ment I just added this idea about guys loving seeing two girls together. Even a guy and a girl, I am not turned on by her getting it from him, I go into fantasy mode and he becomes me. If I were into seeing a girl get it from another guy I would be a swinger and I'm not I don't share.
I know, i was wondering about that too...if there is, it's just short clips, not very satisfying if you ask me.
It's probably not U Tube. There are several ways to download anything you want off the net. It's the same problem that Hollywood faces with people not paying for content cause there is so much free.
A guy problem... ever take one of those little Blue Pills because it appears you are headed for an evening of fun with the wife or SO ? Then something happens like kids, stress and assorted hassles where the wife says "Not Tonight"
So here you are, a little blue pill and a woody for the next 4 hours. No matter what the ads on TV says you're not calling your doctor, your going to take things in your own hands.
I always swear next time I'll plan ahead better.
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