"alone time" with adult content issues (girlfriend, young, child)
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Well call me old fashioned but I think thats awful and a sign of things to come later on in the relationship, but what do I know. As for the getting off behind closed doors thing I just couldn't bring myself to do something like that to a woman I was in a relationship with. If I felt the need to go masturbate behind closed doors without her, then what in the hell am I doing with her in the first place? Its like saying she isn't enough for me or that the sex just isn't enough. If thats the case then we would need to work on our sexual relationship, not avoid the problem and pretend it doesn't exist. Maybe I'm rare but one woman with a healthy sexual appetite is all I require to be satisfied.
That's the way I feel about it, too, but you and I appear to be in the minority. Not that it bothers me.
Jason, when a woman is very secure in herself (no self-esteem issues) and very secure in her relationship she is not at all threatened by her man enjoying occasional porn. The guy is NOT replacing his woman, he's just adding to his fantasy life. There is no need to feel "violated" for pete's sake
That isn't my viewpoint though...and at almost 30 years old I will never change that or accept the "normal" view point that masturbation with pornography is okay and/or healthy. I feel it is a disgusting, selfish, habit that goes along with severe underlying mental issues and permanent sexual dysfunction within the confinement of a healthy relationship.
That isn't my viewpoint though...and at almost 30 years old I will never change that or accept the "normal" view point that masturbation with pornography is okay and/or healthy. I feel it is a disgusting, selfish, habit that goes along with severe underlying mental issues and permanent sexual dysfunction within the confinement of a healthy relationship.
Well, you can believe the moon is made of cheese too if you want to - but that doesn't make it so
That isn't my viewpoint though...and at almost 30 years old I will never change that or accept the "normal" view point that masturbation with pornography is okay and/or healthy. I feel it is a disgusting, selfish, habit that goes along with severe underlying mental issues and permanent sexual dysfunction within the confinement of a healthy relationship.
Okay, what about masturbation without pornography? What do you think about that?
I guess I just don't understand how the woman does not feel violated in that scenario when the guy is essentially replacing his lover with a new fantasy of an imaginary woman...or why the man feels compelled to do so. I'm guessing that with most of them their real life sex is either suffering or will suffer at some point.
Oh well, to each their own.
That's very extreme. I'm not talking about all day every day, I think that would be a problem, but occasional alone time...? Come on. I would think it would be smothering if an SO couldn't get away every once in a while.
Let me tell you something...even "old-fashioned" guys had pin-up magazines they jerked off to. Maybe you're just a prude, like a whole bunch of the women here.
Insulting me won't do you any favors you ****. I never said old fashioned guys didn't jerk off, apparently you failed to read my other much larger post or have a reading comprehension problem...you particularly missed the part where I mentioned magazines. As for being a prude, I'm picky about who I have sex with, just because I dont try to hump every girl that walks by like a dog does not mean I don't enjoy sex. I believe that sex is actually better when you don't taint yourself with pornography and numerous partners.
That isn't my viewpoint though...and at almost 30 years old I will never change that or accept the "normal" view point that masturbation with pornography is okay and/or healthy. I feel it is a disgusting, selfish, habit that goes along with severe underlying mental issues and permanent sexual dysfunction within the confinement of a healthy relationship.
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
Well, you can believe the moon is made of cheese too if you want to - but that doesn't make it so
Well, both stands are opinions and I don't see why one of them should be passed as a fact.
Insulting me won't do you any favors you ****. I never said old fashioned guys didn't jerk off, apparently you failed to read my other much larger post or have a reading comprehension problem...you particularly missed the part where I mentioned magazines. As for being a prude, I'm picky about who I have sex with, just because I dont try to hump every girl that walks by like a dog does not mean I don't enjoy sex. I believe that sex is actually better when you don't taint yourself with pornography and numerous partners.
And that's fine and good.
But you also made this extreme and ridiculous statement:
"masturbation with porn is disgusting, selfish, habit that goes along with severe underlying mental issues and permanent sexual dysfunction within the confinement of a healthy relationship."
This is just laughable - try telling your theory to the American Psychiatric Assoc
Well, both stands are opinions and I don't see why one of them should be passed as a fact.
So sierra, you are saying someone who masturbates with porn is MENTALLY ILL??? I cannot believe you would agree with that or think it a valid "opinion" - it's just rubbish.
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