OMG you like heavy metal (dating, reasons, serious, respect)
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Oh please. Didn't you say earlier that you thought metal was for bad people or something to that tone?
If you go back a re-read my posts, I said some rock bands are ok and metallica was one of my fav. As far as other types of rock, there are certain styles that I avoid because they often involve WAY to much death and darkness.
If you go back a re-read my posts, I said some rock bands are ok and metallica was one of my fav. As far as other types of rock, there are certain styles that I avoid because they often involve WAY to much death and darkness.
so i met this woman a couple weeks ago and we got to chatting
nice looking , cool ,bla bla bla
so we got on the subject of music and i said i like heavy metal and just about any other music too
she said heavy metal. yuk and that was pretty much the end of the conversation
and this has happend to me before
now what is funny is i was seeing a disco band (which is a really good band)
i suppose people have a stereotype about metal heads
well guess what
i have a job, short hair, shave every day, not a drunk, not a druggie, or a wife beater
it would be like saying that if you like dance music than you are a club skank, or if you like rap you are a crackhead shooting people, or if you like country than you drive a primered pick up truck and live on a farm, or if you like elton john than you are gay
it is a shame someone will judge you cause of the music you like
i have no problem with any one listning to any kind of music
even if i dont like it i dont judge people on their music
I am exactly like you and I have this exact same problem. The answer: don't tell them until deeper in the relationship. Say you like a lot of types of music or just say you like rock. You don't have to tell them what type of rock (heavy metal is rock). I just don't bring it up anymore, because it prevented me from getting another date. It's a flag for women, I don't know why, but it is, just don't bring it up.
I am exactly like you and I have this exact same problem. The answer: don't tell them until deeper in the relationship. Say you like a lot of types of music or just say you like rock. You don't have to tell them what type of rock (heavy metal is rock). I just don't bring it up anymore, because it prevented me from getting another date. It's a flag for women, I don't know why, but it is, just don't bring it up.
very good advice
but...
id rather know now that these people have a problem with my music than after a while when i really like the person.
and if they should ever come to my place they are gonna see my cd collection and be like WTF.
but next time anyone asks ill tell them i like rock and everything else. and ill see if that works
who knows maybe they will get to know me and wont have a problem when i break out a slayer cd
Exactly. The other way I justify it as well is let's say a girl is low enough/stupid enough to hold our heavy metal desires against us as a personality flaw. Well when you bring her home, make sure lights are off and get the best of her that night. Then if it's a problem in the morning when she sees your lamb of god poster on the wall, then you can laugh because you got the only thing of value from her before she could walk away.
Rammstein lyrics don't involve death and darkness anymore than metallica.
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Originally Posted by Morphous01
If you go back a re-read my posts, I said some rock bands are ok and metallica was one of my fav. As far as other types of rock, there are certain styles that I avoid because they often involve WAY to much death and darkness.
Exactly. The other way I justify it as well is let's say a girl is low enough/stupid enough to hold our heavy metal desires against us as a personality flaw. Well when you bring her home, make sure lights are off and get the best of her that night. Then if it's a problem in the morning when she sees your lamb of god poster on the wall, then you can laugh because you got the only thing of value from her before she could walk away.
What a disgusting post.
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